Pls help me out, My girl firend came to me Last week and was telling me that men do harrass her sexually. she said it started right from her child hood when she was 15yrs old, up till now it is still continue, she said she will be going to the church and the pastor of the church also harrass her sexually, she ran out of the church, and the second/assistant pastor also came to her seeking for her hand in marriage, mean while she has written all her exams waiting for result to start university that she doesn't want to marry now despite she is beautiful, she came to me as her boy friend and discussed it with me, so please i want advice from any body so when i get back to her i can be able to put her through. thank you
2007-03-04 21:15:46 · 6 answers · asked by Uwem S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I find it very odd that all in one day a pastor and an assistant pastor harassed her. Girls are harassed all the time but some take it over board. Start taking note of things she says happens and watch people when you are out together. Maybe kind of back off from her when you are out in public or something a few times to see what happens. If you truly believe that everything she is saying is true then by all means help her. I don't think every man has harassed her. Ask her what she thinks is harassment. She may think a guy walking down the street who makes eye contact with her is harassment and its not. Pay attention to what goes on around you when ya'll are out and draw your conclusions from that. I think that if she was being sexually harassed all the time by every man that sees her that you would have noticed by now. But if you are just now finding this out, then I think she is trying to get attention.
2007-03-04 21:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by BJTD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang on a minute ....the pastor in the church .....harrassed her .....why did she not go to the ploice ????that i an offence that a man in that job is more than trusted ......what she ran out of the church ,,,,,and what no one saw this ....and all these men are wanting her all the time .....i do not mean to be cruel but this g/f of youres needs help and should go and see a doctor and get this talkied out ......or she should go to the police cause if what she is saying is true this pastor needs pulling for this before something more serious happens ......have this out with youre g/f ........good luck and take care xx
2007-03-04 21:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi... it is very hard to live your life when people are showing you feelings or actions you do not like... I have to wonder if you girlfriend although beautiful on the outside, is not twice as beautiful on the inside, from previous discussions with men about this , they often fall for the women who shows love, passion for life, unselfishness etc over those who take so long to prepare their looks to walk out side... Sometimes men think showing sexual affection is how you show appreciation for the female race.. boy have they got is wrong.. I hope you can sort this out,,, You obviously love her..
2007-03-04 21:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Dean W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is that u want?????? u seem lost. u've related the probs, do u wanna make sure that ur gf doesn't get harrassed anymore. well there're 2 ways of ensuring that. seek legal help, or perform some heroic acts.
2007-03-04 21:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by Iliketodream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make hr believe that ur the only guy who wont to it to her! n if she really get harrassed liek that ,she ought to c the police bout it! but c'mon a pastor harrasses her? she must b damn pretty to do that!
2007-03-04 21:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by nc15672 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not going to change
happens to my girlfriend; every other hot gir.
go date a fat girl?
2007-03-04 21:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋