If my guy does something that bugs me n i tell him, instead of stopping it he just increases it till i go crazy.. its some sorta ego issue for him.. its gettin 2 me so bad that inspite of being together for almost 1 n a half yrs i'm thinkin of callin it quits.. dump him?
2007-03-04 21:08:01 · 6 answers · asked by ZD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes got control problems, thats why hes doing this to u. im sure he thinks its really funny when he makes u mad too, and that he laughs the whole time and says hes just joking and that u need to lighten up blah blah blah. in the end its just excuses for why he should b able to intentionally b mean to u. if u have already told him a few times that it hurts ur feelings and he continues doing this, then yeah u really should dump him, cuz hes not gonna stop just because u dont like it. its all about him him him. if u realllllly feel like gettin his attention next time he does it get up n tell him upoint blank that u r going to break u with him the next time he does this. if (and when) he does it again calmly inform him that due to his being a jackass he is now single and free to annoy the whole world, but that hes not gonna annoy u any more. dont discuss anything else with him, dont let him call u n dont take any visits from him. it will b a little rough at first, but well worth it when u find a person that does not go out of their way to bother u after u tell them time n time again that they r hurting ur feelings. the main thing is that if u threaten to break up with him u have to stick to ur word, otherwise u will become one of those awful couples that r always breaking up n getting back together n he will never ever ever take u seriously...not that he takes u seriously now! good luck n b strong.
2007-03-04 21:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by carmen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in that situation before but I never let it last that long. It will never get better, especially if he intentionally increases the behavior. If you find something that irritating about a person then you will end up miserable if you keep going forward with the relationship. He needs to grow up and respect you. Maybe you can try sitting down and talking with him about it before it happens again, not at the time its happening. If it still doesn't work then get rid of him.
2007-03-04 21:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by BJTD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somebody prattling on perpetually approximately something basically a fanatic ought to love. R/S? Haha. i'm getting aggravated with myself as quickly as I enable people to p^ss me off. Then I actual have an inclination to take it out on christians, those that have been given me offended interior the 1st place. hi, i'm a minimum of a million/2 human.
2016-10-17 07:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you love him, tell him that his immature behavior is causing you to lose respect and feelings for him as you can't understand why he would rather annoy you than please you. Give him the chance to see how serious you are about it and to make changes. If you don't love him or he continues to chip away at it, end it with him.
2007-03-04 21:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignor his bad behavor and dont give him the attenchion hes seeking for that bad behavor.the more you give the more he feeds on it stop it.
2007-03-04 21:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by christine h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
test him first.. ask him not to do those things again to you but if he cant resist the feeling,dump him.
2007-03-04 21:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by heartbeats_tin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋