My husbands parents are very prejudice and have clearly started how they feel about black people(my husband is white) well my husband is upset over how me and his parents relationship is and I was just wondering if there is anything I can do to help mend this relationship?
2007-03-04 20:56:37 · 4 answers · asked by renee_0102 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to choose
2007-03-04 20:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by ferociousnibbler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all, if they are prejudiced then why should you do anything to convince them otherwise? the onus is on them to get over their ignorance not on you to prove you're a human being. no one should have to prove that they shouldn't be discriminated against. I personally would make my feelings crystal clear to everyone and try to avoid contact with those people as much as I could. Honestly if his parents are not going to accept his wife because of prejudice then he should tell them to stay out of his life.
2007-03-04 21:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kos Kesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't anything you can do about inlaws all you can do is love your husband as you do and continue to be a good wife to him and be polite to inlaws out of respect and maybe they might come around if your husband is upset then he should talk to them about it and explain how he feels about it and how he feels about you and his marrige ultimitly its you and him and any children you have or will have
2007-03-04 21:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by alice k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let their discriminative dictates spoil your relationship. You know better, and you and your husband should keep dealing with it together and fight for your love.
2007-03-04 21:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋