There is this girl. People mistake me and her.Basically what i am trying to say is that people see us and think that we are going out.Me and her are really close friends we do everything together.Last night she came over to my house and I was playing football(soccer) and I looked at her because he was watching me and i thought god i love her! I have never felt this feeling before in my life!When me and this girl walk around town we hold hands. When we sat in the car we hold hands, whenever we can we hold hands. We never do anything more than hold hands.I am just worried that if me and this girl go out and if we split up it will ruin our friendship which i don't want happening. Can someone please give me advise!
2007-03-04 20:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by Randall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in the same boat as you. But my friend and I have agreed that our friendship is really important so we promised that if any happens
our friendship will always be there. We also plan that once a month we go and do something that we did as friends. Like we always went out for coffee once a month to catch up. Yeah I see him almost everyday but that day when we go for coffee we talk at a different level you can say. Friendships and relationships are a gamble..but you don't want to always have the what if feel for the rest of your life.
2007-03-04 20:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by JENNIFER C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just go for it, if things don't work out you may or may not be able to be friends. But in the end, why not just take a chance on love? What do you have to loose really? Would you want to spend years of your life you life as her friend thinking the "what if"? better to clear it up now and go from there.
2007-03-05 04:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by ppodjames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, i think you are already in a relationship even though you don't know it yet. If you see 2 adults holding hands in the mall, would you think they are together... really, you have to wake up.
By the way, how close are you two? do you walk about the house without a t-shirt when she is around? just curious,
2007-03-05 04:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your situation is kind of confusing, its like your in the stage of having a mutual understanding... you're friends and clearly you have feelings for each other but you don't have the courage to take things into the next level...
it is better if you tried than not at all.. at least all the ifs questions in the end will be answered.
what if it worked out?
i hope you will find the courage to do this...
2007-03-05 04:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by diesel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have feelings for her. It's just that you dont want to accept the fact that u like her. Give urself more time. Y would u want to hold her hands so often, does it make you more secure.
2007-03-05 04:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by saddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw that is so sweet. this happens alot. best friends becoming gf/bf. its normal. i think that your feelings are mutual. why don't you subtly mention it during a casual conversation? if you two hold hands, i don't think bringing it up will ruin the whole friendship. i'm sure your bond with her is very strong. ask her how she feels. i think that you two can be a great couple<3
2007-03-05 04:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out on a real date see how she feels ask her maybe it will be wonderful for you 2. if you do love her then tell her love is hard to find these days
2007-03-05 04:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by alice k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she wants u so go talk to her and get her
P.s if you love this girl as you say u love her u wont rune the relationship.don't worry
2007-03-05 04:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by The pimp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't loose your friendship with her, but, may what i will say is risky, tell her about your feelings, just chose the right time to do it, or wait and see maybe she will be the one who told you that I LOVE YOU...
2007-03-05 04:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by sahar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell her about your feelings, you can do it because she is your friend. If she dont take it then you need to change your mind. You must can do it.
2007-03-05 04:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by Rifat Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋