Well, me and my ex boyfriend liked each other for several years and were best friends before we finally admitted it and went out. Then, I went throught sort of a phase and we broke up but I never stopped liking him. In the summer, I had to move because of my mom's job but we moved back the winter right after. Me and my ex had been almost hateful to eachother and hadn't talked once. But I still had feelings for him. So when I came back, eventually we became friends again, and we always flirt.. i think, but he has a new girlfriend but I think he still likes me too. And from what I've gathered, i think he likes me more than her. I recently admitted that I liked him and he has told me things like at least you didnt... see what i have to deal with... and such about her. I really love him, but I don't know what to do. I mean he's going out with her And I have met this girl, she is a little obsessive over him.
Actually, I think the song Over by Lindsay Lohan perfectly describes how I feel.
2007-03-04 20:34:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
john b is very very very correct on this. you have a few lifetimes ahead of yourself, you can hold out for better. someday a guy will run into you and give up his whole world instanly for you. i'd bet on it. won't get any odds though because it will happen. just do your own thing, get some of your own goals out of the way.
2007-03-04 20:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by james 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is such a pickle!. If you want to remain friends, do not have sex with eachother, i think you have found this out. If you want a realtionship together, go for it. It is just an age old quandry, since the dawn of time. I do hope things work out. If your ex has a new girlfriend this will be a nightmare, as she will most likely want to protect him from other womens attention, and rightly so, as she will be a bit possesive.
If you can, try to make friends with her. Good luck, i certainly do not envy you.
2007-03-04 20:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 05:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just tell him how you feel but you have to be willing to know that he may want another relationship with you again.
Did you break up just because you went through a phase? Or was it something else.
Maybe sit with someone you trust & talk this out. Its possible you are also lonely & that has never helped anyone.
2007-03-04 20:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by belligerent assistant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you better, he will end it with the other girl and come after you. Don't pursue or even discuss this subject with him again until after he breaks up with her. You may be better off staying out of the picture altogether until then. If he really wants to be with you, he will do what he has to do make it possible.
2007-03-04 20:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grow up and move on, little girl. Either that or be prepared to never again enjoy a fulfilling relationship with anyone. Your choice...
2007-03-04 20:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As he has found himself another gf, let him grow in love with that gf. You should step aside and look for your own love. Don't bother about your ex as he is already your ex right?
2007-03-04 20:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, but as much as you still like him, you and your ex cannot get back together until he breaks up with his current gf. if he really does like you still, he would break it off just to be with you. for the time being, just act friendly towards him.
2007-03-04 20:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are basing songs on how you feel, you must be really young and it is just a young relationship. you'll get over it soon. don't worry about it, he isn't the right guy anyway
2007-03-04 20:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by John Becker 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i agree with john becker
your to young to be worrying about this
xxx
2007-03-04 20:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋