I've just newly started a relationship with this girl. She's my gf now but I didn't know that he had other relationship with other boy. She then breaks up with this boy. And now this boy had accused my gf of doing something 'bad' with him. In fact she's not. I feel sorry for her. She cried, cuz she's afraid that other people will think bad of her. I wished that I could do something to help her. I'm afraid that my relationship with this girl will break if I do something wrong, cuz I'm still in the process of getting to know her. I don't really know what to do.
2007-03-04 20:31:14 · 13 answers · asked by decent guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks guy's and girls. You all had been a great help with my gf's problem. Some of you took seriously of my question, and I will do my best to keep her strong. I really feel sorry for her, she even wanted to change school when it's still goes on like this. I hope I can help her with all the advice you had given to me.
2007-03-04 21:01:15 · update #1
Just be supportive of her. Stand by her and let her know that anyone who really cares about her will not listen or believe this guy's garbage.
2007-03-04 20:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
that guy is a total jerk. he is totally jealous.
tell her that no matter what other people say about her, you will always be there for her. hold her tight when she's crying, and just listen. sometimes we just need someone to listen to us and hold us while we cry. advice is not always necessary. i hope your gf gets better.
2007-03-05 04:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by heartiful 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that only you and her know the truth..
And not to worry about what other people THINK..
It sounds more like shes crying from embarrasment.. and if she knows you know the truth, it might make her feel alittle better.. And if her friends believe that B.S... they AREN'T her friends
hope i helped :)
2007-03-05 04:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by MeganElizabeth 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Listen to your girlfriend in grief.
The other guy is jealous. And a bit derogatory at that.
2007-03-05 04:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it. Every girl, whether earned or not, gets talked about.
2007-03-05 04:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize that that guy is a jerk & said it because she hurt if his feelings.
All of this will pass eventually, its going to be hard but also if you do something (assumingly physical), he could charge you & is that really worth it?
I mean, a few weeks, this could all just pass over.
2007-03-05 04:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by belligerent assistant 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Something tells me that the x-boyfriend's motovation is less than honest. You don't know what to do?? Are you in a relationship with HER or with HIM? If I were you I know who I would believe. It's a no brainer.
2007-03-05 04:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just ignore the liar and he will eventually go away. If you try to do anything, it will just lend strength to his lies.
2007-03-05 04:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should wait and see what will happen next.
Try to relax and spend good time with her as much as possible . Show your love to her .GOOD LUCK
2007-03-05 04:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she shouldn't care what other people think about her, as long as she knows what has happened and what hasn't happened that's all that matters
xxx
2007-03-05 04:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋