my bf wants to come along with me to this concert that me and my friends are going to. i asked my friends and they said i cant bring him even though they are bringing their gfs. should i bring him anyway or get him to meet us there or just tell him he cant come as my friends dont like him(they never met him)
2007-03-04 20:28:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im going with 2 guys and their gfs
we getting the train
we staying in a hotel (my bf said he get his own room if thats their problem)
2007-03-04 20:40:48 · update #1
thats such a bad question. well it is up to you. but it isn't really betraying them.
2007-03-04 20:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your friends you're going to the concert with boys or girls. If they are girls and are bringing along their girl friends, then I say, just explain to your bf that this is just a girls night out type thing.
If your friends your going to the concert with are boys, and they are bringing their Girlfriends, then you need to not go with them, because obviously they don't respect the fact that you have a bf, because any guy knows that going to a concert is a cause for jealousy. Even if your GF is with you.
If your friends are putting you in that situation then one of two things is happening:
A. It's a "girls only thing"
B. Your friends don't respect your relationship and your friendship to them needs to be re-evaluated.
2007-03-05 04:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by infamousheavyt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without knowing the specifics it's tough to answer. why don't your friends want the boyfriend to come? that's the main question. unless there was a real real good reason then I would either 1) not go to the concert or 2) go with the bf. I would not go without the bf. Also, unless the friends had a very good reason for their request I would personally be insulted and would seriously question the depth of their friendship.
2007-03-05 04:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kos Kesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them why u can't bring him. That's unfair and u have every right 2 have just as much fun as they do. I'd demand an explanation cuz that's not fair. Tell them 2 give ur boyfriend a chance and get 2 know him. Bring him along and have fun. Don't limit urself from having as much fun. There shouldn't be rules when ur trying 2 have fun.
2007-03-05 04:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... why would you even think twice if they are doing the same thing. Rather hypocritical don't you think? Sounds like they just don't want you to be happy because they are either jealous of you, or honestly are NOT your friends and are just masquerading as such. Don't let people walk over you. If you're driving, just tell them to find their own ride if they don't like it. Find some new friends that support your happiness and development. Life's to short to be hanging out with bitches/dickheads. Worry less about the well being of others, let them worry about themself. Who's gonna worry about yout?
2007-03-05 04:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Waddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oy ur friends are probably jealous, hell if they can bring theres bring ur guy. ur friends arent really ur friends if they tell u 2 not go 2 the concert with him when they neva met him. i think this might have more to do about u and ur friends then ur friends and ur bf. ur friends a bitches ditch them they dont wanna see u happy.
2007-03-05 04:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm....
1st suggestion
you do not like to betray your friend rite? bring your bf along and ask him to meet your friend when you are going to the concert you ask him to go shopping until you finish the concert .
2nd suggestion
ask if your bf want to go with you you may bring him go to the concert you ask him to go shopping until you finish the concert
if he do not want to go you do not need to bring him
2007-03-05 04:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like its going to be an AWESOME girls' night out!!
Tell him that & that you'd love to make a date to see him on another night & that he's more than willing to attend the concert with his friends & causually bump into you...
but that this is a girls night out & if he's a good guy, he'll do it.
2007-03-05 04:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by belligerent assistant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would either go to the concert with my boyfriend instead of my friends or beg out of going altogether.
2007-03-05 04:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should bring him to you. If they didn't like the fact you brought him, you two can go somewhere else and enjoy your time together.
They are your friends, why wouldn't they want meeting your b/f?
2007-03-05 04:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends seem like di cks. I'd bring your boyfriend anyway. They might actually like him if they've never met him.
2007-03-05 04:31:22 · answer #11 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋