he said he misses me and loves me. he has not dated since we parted. i do miss him. however, im nervous. not afraid just nervous. what do you all think? advise please???
2007-03-04 20:21:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to commit yourself to him right away. If it doesn't feel wrong, go out with him and come to know him again without jumping ahead. Be friends for a while and give yourself a genuine chance to figure out objectively if it's worth taking the chance again.
2007-03-04 20:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an experience when I patch back with a guy I used to date about 4 years back, and in the end? It didn't even last one week for him.
However, I must admit different guy different attitude. I would advise you very strongly on thinking why you guys broke off before. Why it didnt work out. Do you think he's really changed, he's sincere,or he might just be having another go at you.
2007-03-04 20:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Vaingy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Fancy, you need to at least ask yourself the following questions?
1. Will you enjoy having him back?
2. What was the cause of your break-up? Was it something you found unpleasant in him? If so, do you think he has changed or will change?
3. The third question is the vice versa of #2. Do you think you are willing to change to have him back?
4. Do you currently have a boyfriend? If so, who among the two (I'm hoping not three!) weighs more in your heart?
2007-03-04 20:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dowland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a try girl.it means hes for you.It is normal to a girl that you felt nervous because you havent seen him for almost 2 years it seems that you are really interested with him despite all the things that youve been through.and i hope that youve learned your lessons from the mistakes that was done before. there is a saying that love is sweeter the second time around. Good luck and take your best shot.
2007-03-04 20:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by jody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the reason why you two broke up. I mean if it was cheating, you should know better than going back to him. But if it was personality differences or a fight ...etc maybe you can consider the option of going back to him. Either ways, take care and think twice before you do anything with regard to this.
2007-03-04 20:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is merely a residual of the terror you had even as he become doing all of this to you and probable no longer merely healthful yet sensible. the merely element i'd concern now should be if he's stalking you and got here into Wal-Mart because he knew you've been there. i'd save an eye fixed out for him or his motor vehicle for an afternoon or 2 yet then do not problem about it. in case you need to ensue to work out his motor vehicle round your position or everywhere round you, then is the time to get a restraining order antagonistic to him.
2016-11-27 22:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever your heart tells you. Think it over real good. We don't know what you've been through with him. So it's best take a moment to review everything over, what you like about him and what you don't. If you should get back with him, what would you like to be done differently so you won't end up breaking up again.
Good luck. After all, its the matter of the heart. Yours.
2007-03-04 20:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by sk|TTLes™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys can slowly start dating again and start over?
See if hes changed at all.. He might have some tricks up his sleeves.. I dont trust guys lol... I don't see why you guys can't start dating again but remember.. A zebra can't change its stripes.. Most guys can temporarily but then later on.. They always are the same person..
I'd be nervous too but dating can't hurt any...
2007-03-04 20:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by MeganElizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to follow your heart. Do you want him back? Don't forget that you broke up for a reason, and there might be some issues to work through, depending on the situation; however, I think you need to trust yourself and if your heart is telling you that it is worth it, listen. Good luck!
2007-03-04 20:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by insomniac12166 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on why you split in the first place, and nervous? nervous excited or nervous worried? you miss him, so there must have been something thats worth going back to, its difficult to say without knowing more
2007-03-04 20:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋