So this guy I like keeps sending me mixed signals... at church he always sits by me and he's always invading my personal space... he is continually flirtatious... but he just got out of a big romantic entanglement... also, when I invited him out to coffee to talk, after saying yeah, he backed out.... I'm five years older than him, he's only 18... should I chalk this up to his indecisive age? Is this a no-go?
2007-03-04 20:16:53 · 6 answers · asked by just asking... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would have to classify this one as a no go. He is just having some fun with you because he likes your attention. I do not think he is wanting or reading into it as deep as you are. Keep this one at arms length and just stay friends. It is animal instinct that men do not like to be chased but to do the chasing. Stop asking him out, with you flirting back he knows you are a bit interested in him. If you want this to go further then make yourself not so easy to catch. If he wants you I can guarntee you he will chase ya. If not don't take it personaly he is 18 and that is not really emotionaly mature enough to settle down. Besides you can never have to many friends you are close with.
2007-03-04 20:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Rigssy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget this guy. He's obviously playing with you. If you're looking for a serious relationship, don't look his way. Age is another issue. I know what they say age doesnt matter much in a relationship, but think about it. Guys mature much slower than girls. Imagine 5 years different and add in some more. He's gonna be childish and both your mindsets will certainly clashed resulting in quarrels.
2007-03-05 04:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by Vaingy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dated a young man before... they just like the fact that an older woman acknowledges them... plus they feel an older woman won't be immature or get an attitude as much either... i wouldn't go for it... because you'll find out in the end he's still seeing his ex girl...
2007-03-05 04:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by Royal Flyness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's young and inexperienced, prolly why he is sending mixed signals. tell him you want a relationship with him and hopefully he will grow up a little bit to say yes. gl
2007-03-05 04:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too immature..
Him backing out of a friendly-talk over coffee shows it..
back out.. you could just be his rebound girl..
2007-03-05 04:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by crushmybones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are picky and insensitive? you should appreciate people that want to be around you.
2007-03-05 04:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋