Apparently as a decent guy I have no hope at all. How can I become a bad-boy to improve my chances?

Question

Women generally seem to prefer guys that will beat them up and cheat on them.

When in the relationship is it appropriate to begin doing these?

What sort of signs can I give her early on so that she thinks I'll beat her and cheat on her when the time is right?

Answer 1

for gods sake.
a woman who wants a guy to beat her up is ridiculous.
It is never appropriate to hit someone, its ILLEGAL
Are you for real???

Answer 2

In my younger and more immature days, I wanted the bad boy, I will admit. I think a part of me wanted to live on the edge, but deep in my heart, I knew that he was not the best for me. I was usually attracted to his clothes, money, style, rap, etc. We can thank the media for this. But now, I want a guy that is mature, monogomous, and only wants one lady.

Just being honest about my past experiences. I hope you stay the gentleman that you are and end up with the girl of your dreams. You will feel a lot better if you dont give into what seems like the bad guys betting all the women. Even they will (hopefully) one day wake up and realize that if they ever want to settle down with one person, they've got to leave the GAME and mature!!!

Answer 3

I think you are fine just the way you are. If you are a decent guy, then there's no problems.

You will find at a later age (mid 20's and up) that women begin to seriously look for a man that is going to be respectful, kind, and all the good stuff that would make you.

You should not give up because of some immature women wanted someone that they didn't want to be serious. Just be yourself and when someone comes your way, it will be very easy for you to hold that relationship because you don't have to pretend you're a bad ***.

Answer 4

I think your basic premise is wrong.

Women are all unique and have different wants and needs. Some may actually like being treated badly, but probably not most. I do think, however, that most women like to feel needed. If you make a woman believe that you do not need her, she might work a little harder to get you to need her. In other words, be good to her, be open and up front about what you want out of the relationship (this is the part that will make you seem like a jerk), but don't depend on her for anything...at least not in the early stages.

It's not necessary to be a bad guy...just don't be a doormat...women hate that...I think.

Answer 5

LOL, you are funny. Like I said it depends on the woman. I'm sure there are nice women out there. If you looking around at bars than I think the chances of you finding someone who would want a stable relationship are less. Not saying anything bad towards women at the bars but I'm just saying that generally they're more outgoing and probably just want fun.


You can try blind dating or maybe date someone from some organizations in your town or ask your good female friends about meeting women.

I hope you don't change yourself for anything or anyone. I'm sure there must be someone out there who is made just for you. You just haven't found her :).

BTW, thanks for answering my questions :) !!

Answer 6

What kinda question is this? Why would u want 2 be like that? This is totally stupid cuz I don't go after guys like that. Bad boys don't "beat up" on girls. That's just the kinda guys some women like. Just becuz they're bad boys doesn't mean they're going 2 treat us bad. I've never once went with someone that would beat up on me. Yeah bad boys are cute but I wouldn't go after one that's a LOSER. There's no such thing as a bad boy that abuses women. That's just a plain idiotic retard. I think u need 2 get this straight cuz the only women that go after men like that are women that are interested in that style. Just be urself and girls will like that.

Answer 7

This is hilarious!
OK but you dont have to beat up on them, but being cruel and unkind and insensitive is a must.
Its usually because guys who are 'terribly nice' are useless in bed, so they are trying to make up for it by opening doors and buying ****** flowers. Its caused by a lack of testosterone, the male sex hormone.
Girls can sniff out a loser, and someone who is too nice is not a competitor, meaning he's not manly.
If you care too much it is seen as a sign of weakness.

Answer 8

Maybe as a decent guy your appearance is not enticing,is your mouth okay ? No rotten, teeth,your hair is clean? and your body smell heavenly?? and you can talk intelligently and nice to be around with? OH LA LA( I am already turn on)...Well,if these is not working,you are right, turn in to a bad boy,don't brush your teeth and don't take a bath carry a horse whip all the time, these are the early sign to give her and when you talk to her use foul language like fu***, sh** ,bit**. By the way who is SHE??? Is she your stu*** imagination??

Answer 9

Though I don't encourage it, why don't you become a drug dealer? People will get to know you, you'll hang around with bad boys, start looking like one, and all the crack head women will stick to you like flies to fly paper. Then you'll go to jail and the women will send you money and help you.

I don't believe a decent guy like you should even attempt these things. Why do you want to throw your life away to women who have no values and low self esteem?

If you are going to do so, then I don't think you are a good person because you are hurting yourself. Decent women don't like bad men.

SHAME ON YOU!!! :o(

Answer 10

You are exactly right to be honest.

However, those idiots and dumbass nit wits that need to be beat in the head with a club, dont get the last laugh in the end.

Those bad boys are .....dumb. If you become one you are just setting yourself up for a ruined life.

Answer 11

Dude you seriously made me think... I'm no good at being a bad boy! I can't not care! I bet you're that way too. You know what, I think it's just a matter of coming across the girl that appreciates you.