I took him to a home and garden show (my weekend with him, his mom and I no longer together) and he received a helium balloon. We got back to my place and I was letting him play outside. The balloon escaped his grip, and he chased it saying "come back, come back, please come back" He was not upset, but was trying to be sincere hoping it would help. I am a grown man, and it made me cry. He was not aware of that fact. What the hell is wrong with me.?
2007-03-04 19:50:16 · 24 answers · asked by ckgene 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Awwwww!!! That is so adorable, and I love the "what the hell is wrong with me" part. There's nothing wrong with you! I think that is the sweetest thing I've ever read on YA.
Maybe you're just sincere =)
lol.
2007-03-04 19:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Your son gave a response which caught at your heart strings. "Come back" etc. The penny dropped because of your situation with his mum.
Its a normal reaction and it just shows the love you have towards your son. It can be a lonely and depressing time for you right now, but at least you have created someone very precious.
He has given you life it self and that's something no one can take from you. You are going through a phase right now, Nothing to be ashamed of either. Life's so short enjoy the moment and the time you have with him.
Also enjoy your life go out and enjoy yourself as well, have drinks and dinner with friends. there's a whole new world out there just waiting for you
Good luck Your a good dad....
2007-03-04 20:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by aotea s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that's so sweet. That's actually bringing tears to my eyes. :) Kids are the cutest, most wonderful, sweetest (most of the time, lol) little people, and I feel truly sorry for those who aren't fortunate enough or don't want to have them--they really are missing out.
I have two sons, ages 20 months and just-turned-three-years, and they are the lights of my life. I was checking on them before I went to bed last night to make sure they were covered, etc., and my three year old looked positively angelic lying in his little bed. I think he must have been dreaming because he had the tiniest little *hint* of a smile on the corner of his lips. I really wanted to crawl in bed with him just to snuggle a little. Then reality hit and I remembered that his toddler bed has a weight limit of 50 lb. :D
Then I remembered how he had screamed bloody murder earlier in the day because I wouldn't give him a piece of his leftover birthday cake for dinner, and I went and got in my own bed. LOL
2007-03-05 08:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real love the real care. that is all. nothing wrong with you ı think most of the people should be jealous of you.
in a birthday party my 4 year old girl couldnt get a chair around the table . big kids runed and get all the chairs. and you know what. ı hold her and hide in the kitchen and cried with her. because her heart was broken and my heart was with her. sound funny or helpless but ı am sure all the mothers do understand me very well and Good dads too :)
2007-03-04 21:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by zubeyde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your son and you want to do everything for him, but a simple task like retrieving the balloon was out of your ability. Maybe you are depressed because you can only see him at weekends. Kids have all different effects on us and this is just one of them.
2007-03-04 19:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with you! You're just a good man who obviously loves being a dad. There's no shame in that!
I hope your son comes to be just as good of a man as you are. Embrace all of those little moments now, they escape you far more quickly than you think!
2007-03-04 19:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
absolutely nothing is wrong with you. In fact everything is just right. It is obvious you love your child and I'm so glad that you aren't afraid to share your feelings with us. When you love someone that much, you will shed tears of joy and also tears of sadness.
You are a great father!!! I hope you will also teach your son how to be tender hearted father when he all grown up.
2007-03-05 03:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by crazykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have all the girls on your side!!! But to me it shows that you want to do everything you want to do to make him happy, and it hurt that you were not able to get the balloon. I am proud of you to share this. My husbands gets tired of the balloons and he and my son goes outside to set them free. And I thought it was cruel but he just told the balloons bye bye!!!!
2007-03-05 01:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 10:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a damn thing wrong with that, mate. you just happen to be a dad. it's rough, iknow personally how rough. i remember one time that i brought some homework over to the exes that my son had left at my house. when i left he was practicing his claranet, all i could do was sit in my car and bawl. you keep having those feelings and continue to "be there" for your son and you will make a fine dad.
2007-03-04 20:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by googleplex 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋