they insist that they are just friends and i believe them. but, what if things get out of control while they are holidaying? also, what is this guy thinking?! shall i confront him and tell him to leave my friend alone?
2007-03-04 18:23:30 · 20 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should do anything. It's not your business. I know she is your good friend but that does not give you the right to go up to someone and ***** them out. Maybe they are just very good friends. I'm sure if she's a good friend of yours than she would definitely tell you if there was something more to this relationship.
I have some very good male friends and I was planning a trip with couple. Actually I have been on a trip as well with one of my guy friends. But that does not mean we have something going on. Infect, it was a great time and we ended up learning so much more about each other. It was great.
In my opinion, you should take it easy and leave your friend alone. Make sure you tell her to keep you inform about where she'll be staying so you won't be worrying but apart from that you should not dig into her life.
2007-03-04 19:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is able to tell him to leave her alone.
If they are just friends then shouldn't the guy's girlfriend already know??
I think things are already out of control
I feel sorry for the guys girlfriend, how many others has he done this with, what about STDs, AIDs and countless other things, not to mention a careless word or photo placed where she could find it, they should be found out the poor girl needs to have a decent man she can trust.
2007-03-04 18:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by It's been awhile 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The crazy people are that guy's girlfriend and her boyfriend, why go on holiday with your male friend? I think they are taking it a bit too far. At least they should go as couples. It wont help even if you speak to the guy. You are a good friend though.
2007-03-04 18:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sofia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not, your friend has a mind of her own and theyve both made the choice, youre best to keep out of it, neither will thank you
2007-03-04 21:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good that you care about ur friend so much.....but there is a thin line of caring and being intrusive....if you wanna do something explain to your friend the cons of the relationship...if she still decides to go into it...so be it
2007-03-04 18:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by snehesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wise to get involved in this--its their business, not yours...keep your own council, that way, if anything back fires you won't be in the firing line.
2007-03-04 19:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why let they girlfriends and boyfriends join them.... so things will be fine for both no one suspects as what you suspected... if not... let your friend stop from going...
2007-03-04 18:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by desiree gersaniba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them to it, Because the messenger always gets shot....
2007-03-04 18:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by X_Angie_p_X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill 2 birds with one stone? i think u should say him something or just advise him to think it twice b4 he joins them.if ur advice goes to the drain u r better leave him n say bye-bye "get loss".
2007-03-04 18:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obvious they will get it on, no doubt about it. Dont talk to the boy, talk to your friend & tell her your concerns. Its up to her if she takes your advice or not.
2007-03-05 02:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by helen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋