shes 22 im 16. Advice!?

Question

shes 22, im 16.9. Shes a bit quirky-never been on a date til like a month ago but she has alot of g friends

-Shes my dancing teacher (i take dancing lessons once a week at a studio - one on one for 2 hours) , and shes 1 of those very pretty but a little cudly, only a tiny bit. Shes very funny, we have fun together and we joke around and stuff. Were very very alike!
Sometimes it gets a little beyond fun eg holding hands 4 a lil bit too long + we both no

-She asks me Q like do you have a girlfriend and she tells me everything bout her. I just wonder if she sais all this stuff 2 her other students or just me??

when she asked me if i had a g.f. she siad "i'd go out with you", and she sais she likes spending time with me aswell

What do you reckon i do, wait for her/lay it down. I dont want it 2 be wierd tho. I dig her so much its lame, everything about her too

I still DONT no if she likes me THAT way or not?

**were in AUS - NOT ILLEGAL -consent is 16

Answer 1

i think you should cut it off

Answer 2

That is a little young of age, be very careful, at that age (no offense) you should not be taking love/girls so serious.

You may like her very much, but do explain how you can not get too close. You know you can not, so do not give that impression, you are 16. Maybe 18, but you are a little young.

If you can drive, sure take her out on a date, have some fun. Ask her out to the movies or dinner date, might as well have a fun time while you two are comfortable with each other and like each other.

MOST IMPORTANT: You may like her a ton, BUT
KEEP YOUR LIFE PRIORITIES STRAIGHT, school, work, etc. At that age you decide what you are doing with your life and how you are going to begin it, do not let this relationshiop alter that.

Good luck and go get um tiger.

Answer 3

Illegal or not, I would recommend you both wait until you are 18 to take your friendship to the next level. It's a little weird that a 22 year old woman would be interested in a 16 year old. It just raises a lot of red flags. It sounds like she is socially immature. I don't think she's a child molester but, she should really be careful.

Answer 4

She must be a very immature 22 year old. I'd find someone else my own age. She seems to be not very secure of a person if she has to resort to gossip about other girls or is trying to pick you up at your age. She should be dating someone with identical tastes, experiences, intelligence level, etc. I'm not saying anything negative against you because you are only 16. I just think she should find someone else more her age. It sounds as if she wants you, but I don't think it's too healthy of a relationship on her end. Guess who will eventually get hurt and left behind? YOU!!

Answer 5

She may just like you as a friend. You could test her by saying did you see the trailer for "Movie title here" if you get a positive reaction... I'm really curious about it but nobody I know wants to see it.

You should have your answer then my friend. If you do go just look at her feet while the movie is on and see if its pointed at you and if its close to your leg. Also if she is leaning in your direction most of the time. Great sign. Take it slow my friend. Best advice. (Theater only)

The "I like spending time with you as well" was not a good response

Answer 6

There's a difference btwn wanting a sexual thing with someone and feeling warm toward him. Your fantasies may be true, but there's a better chance that it's never going to happen. People sometimes remind older folks of something great from when they were that age. The older one may live in that memory for time, and even toy with the idea of trying to recreate it, but they usually choose not to. Sorry bud. I wouldn't get my hopes up. Maybe you can help her blossom a bit, but don't count on being the one.

Answer 7

You two may like each other and maybe it's not illegal, but 16 is still a bit too young to date someone 6 years older than you. I'd say continue being friends and get to know her more.

Answer 8

super... decide for it, there is no longer something extra effective than a older extra expirienced chick. you have a super time, why do you hassle approximately it. while you're thinking of a relationship or smt, overlook it, its in simple terms gratifying her needs, and your's too. Ask her out, have some beverages, and a few intercourse , ya feelin that... If she says no, the hell along with her... :) Im 18, and as quickly as I dated/been with a 27 twelve months previous.. We had an AWSOME TIME, 4 actual. :)

Answer 9

She might be asking these questions to the other students.

but she does seem to like u. Wait for her to lay it down, but subtly flirt with her, when she holds ur hand, caress it, then one day let ur eyes wonder to her lips while she talks. She may either except ur advances or reject it.

But stay cool until u have a better indication, if she seems too shy, be direct and straight forward-ask her out, older women such as myself appreciates that

Answer 10

Dont you think that you are a little bit inexperience for her. Unless you are not looking for something serious then you can date her. She will always treat you like a child seing that you are so young. Women prefer men that are older and more experienced unless they are just looking for a toyboy.

Answer 11

yea dude if it is legal go for it. when i was 16 i know i wanted to get with a 22 year old dance teacher. go for it. as long as its legal and if you say so then do it