HELP..... Who's right ? ? Where is this relationship going ?

Question

He thinks he's right, I think I'm right. I told him that in some situations we should just accept the fact that we both have a different opinion respect each other and not make a big deal about it. He still tries to get me to see things his way on almost any differences we have. I give in most of the time just to avoid an argument - where is this relationship going?

Answer 1

I think you are seeing the future pretty clearly already. You value the relationship more than you value being right, or being seen as right. He values winning the argument more than he values the relationship.

Answer 2

Girl it going down the drain. If your partner can't accept you views on different issues then you will spend the rest of this relationship fighting about stupid things. But if you do care enough about him to where you can let him run over you then I say stay for it. It’s all up to you. Only you can make this descion. This is America we have a freedom to speech and opinions.

Answer 3

What's "right" should only be based on fact. You shouldn't be the one giving in all of the time. Two strong-willed people who can't agree on some things most of the time don't have a future.

Answer 4

if you are arguing for the sake of arguing,you are definitely headed for trouble!! if the arguments are genuine,it would not matter who is wright or wrong,the important thing is that you resolve your differences and focus on strengthening your relationship and enjoy your time together!

Answer 5

if it is bothering the both of you and you couldn't fix it, i think it would be better for you both to have separate lives before everything gets too ugly. if you'd continue disagreeing about simple things, what more you could have if in the long run. your felings matters too, right? :)

Answer 6

Just tell him when you want his opinion you will give it to him.

Answer 7

i think 'z' has an interesting and plausible theory.