on friday we had a guy's night out. not every friday just this friday by chance. we went to a strip club just for the fun of it. my friend is sitting like 2 inches away from me and getting a lap dance from some girl. my girlfriend calls i pick up phone and she asks where i am and i tell her hanging with the guys then she hears a girl (the stripper) saying "ohh baby" because my friend was also trying to hit on the stripper during the dance. so my gf thought of the worst and started getting an attitude with me like there was a girl with me and i was cheating on me and she just hung up the phone. why do you women always think your boyfriend is cheating on you if you hear another women in the background? you don't even let the guy explain?
2007-03-04 18:10:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ever heard of stepping outside to take a call...or going to the men's room. If your gf doesn't know men go to strip clubs...she's not much of a woman! Be sure not to come home with "Booty Dust" from a lap dance. And you probably need to stay away from Hallmark cards with lots of glitter or you'll be re-explaining the "Booty Dust".
2007-03-04 18:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this situation, think about how you would react with hearing another man with your girlfriend, while she says 'just hanging with my girlfriends'.
"we went to a strip club just for the fun of it." This obviously makes your girlfriend upset, as instead of spending time with her, you are at a strip club.
"why do you women always think your boyfriend is cheating on you if you hear another women in the background?" obviously what your girlfriend was hearing wasn't just a little old lady walking her dog, but a stripper soliciting someone (possibly you).
As for her not letting you explain, she is not going to have a happy chat about a stripper with you is she? Im sure after calming down she let you explain.
Also think about what is more important to you- watching your friend get a lap dance or your relationship with your girlfriend.
2007-03-04 18:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you called your gf and heard a guy's voice caying " ooh baby" what would YOU think? I totally support your gf if she was angry with you for that matter. I guess you need to be honest enough to tell her yes you were with the guys but no it was my friend who had the lap dance and so on. Just explain it to her. She'll listen. Good luck.
2007-03-04 18:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let the guy explain...however I would also date a guy that would respect me enough to include in his plan or inform me of where he was going, so there wouldn't be any doubt...
Communication is the key to Trust....
and if you are really serious with this girl...why a strip club....cant guys find other things to do????
just my thoughts
best wishes
2007-03-04 18:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think about it. If a chick is moaning in your ear does it make sense to take a phone call?? Especially from your girlfriend?? That's like pissing into the wind.
Next time either go outside to take the call or don't answer at all.
2007-03-04 18:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by m k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the worse always ends up happening
2007-03-04 18:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Built4War 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure you'd react the same with if she was out with her hoe-y friends
2007-03-04 18:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they just want to be sure that nothiong bad would happen
2007-03-04 18:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by miaghysun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are immature and insecure.
2007-03-04 18:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he need's a stripper,than you don't need him.
2007-03-04 18:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋