Would you get bothered if your BF's friend which it's not really in his life much only calls and brings up girls that my man used to date, and updates him on how they are doing? My man doesn't know that I heard the message that was ment for him, see our #'s are almost the same and he called me. Neither of us have a greeting so all you hear is you reached .....and it gives you the # so he's telling him hey fool guess who I seen? and kept on. Am I really wrong my getting mad. I mean I'm tired of this. Help please.
2007-03-04 17:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's yours right...so If the friend is just leaving messages its no big deal.
He's not around much, so maybe he doesn't know how serious you guys are?
As far as the messages, they are just simple news of...Hey Guess what?
Now if your boyfriend was calling him and saying guess who i saw wowo it brought back memories...she looks hot.
that would be some thing to worry about.
Think about your girl friends and how they call and share information......really it doesn't sound like a big deal...unless of course you are insecure in the relationship.
Hey, maybe you should invite this friend(dinner or something)of his over so he can see how serious the both of you are..maybe the updates would slow down???
Just a thought
best wishes
2007-03-04 17:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id get angry too, im a very jealous person though so i would wonder why the friend feels the need to update him on these old girls. id tell your bf about it, ask him why his friend may be telling him all that junk and see what he says. most likely its just the friend doing it because he thinks your bf cares but meanwhile all your bf cares about is you!! :]
2007-03-04 17:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by sarah s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you a message from his friend by acident and then just let him know how you feel about what his friend does. As long as you trust your man and he hasn't given you a reason not to then things should be all good and you'll have nuttin to worry bout'
2007-03-04 17:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by VIRA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just make sure that ur bf isnt connecting with these other girls...if he is u might need to get mad....who cares if he knows how they r doing...as long as hes not talking to them or seeing them.....good luck....ill be praying for all of you
2007-03-04 17:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by Colie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you open up this issue to your bf... through this, you won't have to speculate and your questions will be answered. Tell him that you're pissed off or annoyed with his friend's behavior...
2007-03-04 17:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. know-it-all 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his friend has a problem with you and wants to constantly remind your boyfriend of his past girls... I would sabotage him somehow... But thats just me... Maybe post his cell # on a gay porn forum on craigslist.org :)
2007-03-04 17:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by chattychica04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you are over reacting. How can he control what his friends will tell him. Big deal, his friend ran into one of his ex 's.
2007-03-04 17:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to your boyfriend immediately.
2007-03-04 17:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by hizbizbiz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋