i got back together with an ex boyfriend of five years...i went out the other guy for one month..but he gave me a lot of gifts...my bf thinks i should return them. the one month relationship ended badly... with him actually stalking me...i was going to mail the gifts back to him
2007-03-04 17:14:22 · 9 answers · asked by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
even if he was stalking me i should return the gifts?
2007-03-04 17:18:23 · update #1
or would that make him want to stalk me again?
2007-03-04 17:19:09 · update #2
yes the authories were contacted and they said they couldnt do anything until he did something worse..only ones that did anything was security at the college i go to..they meet me everyday and walk me to my work study job and back to my car
2007-03-04 17:22:07 · update #3
Nope he gave them to you. Gifts are supposed to be unconditional with no strings which means they were intended for you to have not to return. although if you have no intention of using the items I would return them then maybe he can get his money back
2007-03-04 17:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by galixcysmagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gifts are gifts. The point of a gift is to express care for the person you're giving it to. Your bf prolly wants you to return them because they are gifts from another guy, and not him, which can seem threatening... However, gifts are gifts, as I said. You should enjoy the spa card, and the watch can be regifted or sold easily I'm sure. Screw the guy who gave them to you, especially if he's stalking... I mean, jerks like that don't deserve their money back anyway lol
2007-03-05 01:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be a good idea to get the gifts back to him as soon as possible. If you keep them he might think that he still has a hold on you.
2007-03-05 01:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if he stalking you, then avoid contact at all cost!!! keep the gifts u got u dont owe him anything
2007-03-05 01:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A gift is a gift.Hell NO!Keep them.
2007-03-05 01:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them back-it's one less reason for him to see you. and if he's stalking you, i hope you got the authorities involved!
2007-03-05 01:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! He GAVE you these things of his own free will, and they belong to YOU!
2007-03-05 01:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by David K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey anna
2007-03-05 01:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Chris L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should
2007-03-05 01:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋