2007-03-04 17:09:45 · 13 answers · asked by sohana r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should get real angry, and then feel real sad that your relationship did not work out, and then finally feel relieved that he did you a favor and you are finally rid of the jerk! He obviously wasn't the kind of man that you want to spend the rest of your life with, he's not trustworthy. Pick yourself up, gather up your self-respect and realize that not all love relationships are good for you or healthy. Not all loves are meant to last a lifetime, and this is one of those unhealthy love relationships. Concentrate on whatever it is that you need to do for yourself so you can become the best you can be, so whenever the real Mr. Right comes along you will be ready for him. You deserve to be with somebody that you can trust completely, and he isn't the one...You'll be fine, take it one day at a time.
2007-03-04 17:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing sort of - I've learned to visualize a close friend, just like me, in the same situation I'm going through, and what kind of advise would I give her. I've learned that no body knows you better than yourself. It's hard to hate, especially those that we've let be part of us. Good Luck and I hope that things work out for you.
2007-03-05 01:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys often take advantages of weak girls.. so plain simple: let him know that you're not a weak girl. Let him know that you are not his toy! Be tough, confront him! Soon or later you will have to face it, why don't face it now where it's still fresh?!
2007-03-05 01:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by p45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats not much details to go on
but if its sumthing bad really bad i dont think u should forgive him
but if its sumthing like cheating on u once then thats forgiveable...........in time
just talk to him her about it and just let old wounds heal
2007-03-05 01:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him and you can forgive him then dont leave him because you will regret it later on. talk to him and see if you can work something out together, if not then you should leave him
2007-03-05 01:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by PERSIAN PRINCESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the 21st century. People sleep around, learn to live with it, and if you can't, don't date, just join the party.
2007-03-05 01:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Toughen up... treat him like crap at least for a while.
Don't make him think it's okay just cause you love him!!!
2007-03-05 01:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you familiar with the term "*** hole". That is what you are in love with. He properly does not love you if he would do that to you.
2007-03-05 01:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by daboss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He showed you how he feels about you by his betrayal, if you show him he can get away with it by being weak, you will lose him and your self respect.
2007-03-05 01:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by cimra 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what he did, (if he cheated then dump him) I'm a guy myself and if a guy cheats once he WILL cheat again.
2007-03-05 01:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by Cataclysmica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋