Why do women have children & dont raise them right?

Question

I am talking about mothers who think they are doing their children a favor by teaching them wrong morals, by raising them up the hard way, rejecting them by always putting yourself first.

They will get enough of this from the world, mothers like myself doing a great job trying hard to not let the world mess my children up, how this happens; children that come from disfunctional homes, poor parenting skills. It's not about you, step up to the plate, you brought a child raise it right be in that childs life, dont have children to tie men down! If your marriage goes wrong be a mother no matter what. What makes you a woman is to carry a back bone, no man will make you complete. When men see this you have a lot more respect, if they see an ignorant women putting a man first, depressing all they see is a volnurable woman who will be taken for a ride. Put your children first, love yourself to find that true love. Your children will be there for you tomorrow, and thank you. Trust no man!

Answer 1

Because they believe abortion is absolutely wrong, so now they are stuck with a kid and know not what to do with it.

Answer 2

As a single mother I'm also concerned about the world messing my child up. But worrying about it doesn't help. You just need to do your best and teach your kids to make the right decision because in the end your child will do what they want or what they think is right.

My mother always told me that you have to love yourself before loving another.

As for the other mothers who are teaching them wrong morals and all the other bad stuff. We are not the ones to judge. Maybe what the other mothers are doing is the best they can. Maybe they don't know how to be a mother. Maybe if they didn't have a neighbor sitting back and judging their every move, they could be a better mother by you being their friend.

Answer 3

Most of the women you describe are merely children themselves, children having children. Just watch a little afternoon television and you will often hear young women expressing sincerely that they wish to have a baby of their own. "Why?" the host will ask. "So I'll have someone to really love me." You're right, some misguided few will even become pregnant to "trap" a man, and that is embarrassing and tragic for the child to come. Any woman considering giving birth to a child, should be ready to put all her selfish interests aside, but it won't ever happen. God only knows what motivates this sort of woman. There are some men worthy of our trust, but first we have to realize we are complete without a man, and we certainly do not need a child born into our lives until we are financially, emotionally. and even physically ready to be mothers. Let us strive to be proud mothers who raise fine daughters and sons. Let us show mercy on those who have lost their way, and be a friend to those children who find themselves rejected.

Answer 4

It's up to parents to teach their children morals about everything, not just about men.. I work in a grocery store and we have caught mothers letting their young children steal. Sometimes we also catch teams with a child thats older(like 20 or so) and a parent who come in a shoplift together. Parents like those should have their kids taken away.

Answer 5

Im a man who has 3 childern who loves them dearly and have also been blessed with a good mother for my children unfortunatly some husbands spouses and children arent so lucky and unfortunately it just reminds me of an old addage which is YOU CANT MAKE A WHORE A HOUSEWIFE !!!!!!!!!!! unfortunately some men cant tell the difference and the children have to suffer for this you can trust that from a MAN !!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

One: everyone has different morals they teach there children what they believe is right you can not say what is right and what is not you have an opinon thats it
Two: I agree people shouldn't teach there children they need to realy on someone to care for them. that won't get them no where in life expacily not in this day and age but how ever they should teach them it's ok to ask for help to lean on someone if you really need it and that it's ok to trust just be careful in who you trust. but yes mothers should put there children first. My mother always has and I love her for it. but she does have her own life and she does let us know what sometimes she wants something for her and sometimes she needs to think about herself because you know what? you can't take care of the ones you love if you don't take care of yourself I've learned that the hard way.

Answer 7

Ok first off i do not think it is right to say trust NO man. My mother and father have been together for over 35 years. sounds to me like you just had a devorce and looking for people to lash out at. You are also makeing it sound like you are the only good mother in the world. People have difrent ways of raising children and yes it's true some ways are not the right way. But stop making it sound like you are miss perfict. EVERY MOTHER MAKES MISTAKES! Many mothers who are making large mistakes offten don't know how to raise children, were niglected when they were kids, doing drugs or other such things this does not give them an exscuse. Also if you say trust no man you child/children will grow up beliving this and then probliy end up being single mothers or to grow up to be dead beat dads because they will belive they should not grow up to be trusted as men. I belive you to be very sexist. Stop beliving you are miss perfict you have flaws as a mother too. in order to beable to care for your child you must first and for most take care of yourself. true i have sacrificed many things so my child can have some extras but every now and then i too like a little extra in my life. I do agree with the statment of do not have kids to tie men down because i have seen many many many women do this and yes many men who see a woman with no back bone will walk alover her but not all will do that.

Answer 8

I'm very glad that you are not the moral authority in this country... otherwise, I'd be running for Canada going mach5 with my a** on fire.

On the one hand, you tell women to stand up for themselves, and on the other hand, to completely bury themselves in their childrens' needs and to ignore their own needs and desires. You can't have it both ways; a woman who ignores herself in favor of ANYONE does no one any good. If a woman has the kind of personality and mentality (not to mention economic stability) to be able to devote themselves 110% to their children, then more power to her. Many women, though, under the pressure to do exactly the thing you say they should be doing, wind up hurting themselves, their marriages, and even worse, potentially hurting their children. Who benefits then? You do, because you can sit on your pedestal and point your little finger and go, "See her? She's so selfish. She's devoting her life to herself, and look at what happened. I'm so glad I'm not like her."

Thanks for making mothers who are doing the best they can feel that much worse. You should be writing for a parenting magazine.

Answer 9

why do u say trust no man? Like were all bad or somthing. women participate in the activity to create children to and that may actually answer your question. they have fun makin em but dont want to raise them. That goes for girls and guys. It's getting worse kids getting pregnant at age 13, and 14 thats horrible. yes u may be correct trust no man but when u say that u should also say trust no woman or just say trust no one.

Answer 10

The reason for me is because each one of us is different. We are free individuals and came from different kind of families,communities and has different beliefs in every way. Many of "these" mothers cannot accept that they are wrong and always insist that they know more on what they are doing because that is their stand.
Also because we have different levels of intellect and sensibilities. Some mothers can be insensitive on the feelings of their neglected child because they give more importance on their own feelings.
And some mothers are so young that they cannot decide correctly on what kind of mother they want to be because of their lack of experience on this world of double-standards and differences.

Answer 11

What makes you so sure that "your" way of living, raising a family and living are "right". People have to understand that they can only do what works for them, they should not be judgmental of others or how they do things. All you have to do is worry about yourself. I am sure that there are things that you do "wrong". Keep in mind that not everyone has the same background and resources as yourself.