I have a boyfriend whom i love alot. I have been going out with him 2 years and he is the only guy i have slept with. Lately ive been getting curious about what it would be like to sleep with someone else. I dont want to loose my bf but i can help being curious. Is this wrong of me? What should i do?
2007-03-04 17:06:54 · 17 answers · asked by Bubby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know someoen who i could sleep with no strings, just once and he woudln't find out. Its only coz im curious and need to know what it would be like before i really settle down. Am i wrong to be tempted?
2007-03-04 17:08:35 · update #1
do it.
2007-03-04 17:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Petarded 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The real question should be, "Do I really Love him?" No, don't cheat. Don't bother telling him about your curiousity either. If you are feeling this way now, just think about how you might feel later. Obviously you are not in love because being in love does not include being attracted to others. So, I would suggest, ask him for a break.....be completely ALONE for a while. Do not spend time with any men and ask yourself, "Do I love him." You'll find the answer faster than you think and it's likely, you are not in love which will help you with the rest of the issue. If your not in love, you don't need to be with him. Remember this, real love is only with one. Good luck.
2007-03-05 01:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong to be tempted, only wrong to commit adultery. Cheating isn't nice or fair, even if your bf never finds out. A good way to spice things up is try a new position or ask him to do things different. Although, this doesn't always work, especially if he's not cooperative. In this case, a separation might be in order to figure things out, try dating new people, and if he understands you can always get back together later once you get more experience.
2007-03-05 01:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Chris C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha im in the same boat as you! dating my bf 3 years, lost my virginity to him and never slept with no one else! so im curious too. if you truely love him though and cheat on him, you will feel sooooooooooooo bad afterward so dont do it :( i realize this is unrealistic (mostly because my bf threw this notion right out the window) but maybe talk to your bf about how you feel. tell him you love him, you always will, you just wanna see how badly other guys fair against him (hehe). its just something you want to experience before settling down with him :)
2007-03-05 01:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by fear of the dark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong to be tempted
u cant help it
no if u know he'' never find out and u wont feel guilty about it but go ahead
but i wouldnt personally
but when u 2 settle down u might be tempted later on and itll be much worse
so if ur not married now go for it
2007-03-05 01:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's never wrong to be curious, but it is wrong to 1 be unfaitful and 2 be untruthful.....you are naive because everything comes out eventually...he will find out someday wether it is today or in a month or in a year. Ever heard of karma? Look it up...
2007-03-05 01:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jaybird 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES it is wrong if you love your bf alot. This means that after marriage, you would consider having extra pleasures even if you are curious again..?
You might end up with a divorce if not feel guilty all your life?
2007-03-05 01:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not necessarily wrong
it's hard to stick with someone for a long time and not be curious about what it would be like with someone else
however, it would be wrong to act on your temptation if you're still seeing a guy
2007-03-05 01:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Ocean Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u are wrong, u know that saying curiosity kills a cat, dont let ur curiosity kill ur possibility of having a good relationship...sleeping with someone else...without love, is just physical, u will regret it
2007-03-05 01:11:30 · answer #9 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love him ask if his agree with you to do that...if not at least you was honest with who love you a lot too. After that you have to take the decision...
2007-03-05 01:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by smartdeal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to have a threesome. If he were to find out, would your fling be worth losing him. Tell him how you feel. Maybe he thinks the same.
2007-03-05 01:10:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋