She broke up with me a couple days ago. we had a 2 1/2 yr long distance relationship. for the past 2 wks i was displaying jealousy. She told me the primary reason was the circumstances. Im in law school and she works. the distance between us is 2 1/2 hrs. She also told me she loved me but there was no spark anymore. I have a feeling her friends influenced her decision. i will give her a month of space and not contact her. I believe she still wants to be with me, but she has to come to that decision on her own. I treated her better than any of her previous boyfriends and prob better than any future boyfriends. I thought i was going to marry her. I want to let her know that that jealousy was only a temporary thing and that i will not let it happen again. i have been sitting around and thinking about jealousy and how irrational it is especially when you 100% trust the other. I want to tell her but do not know how. what should i do about thinking her friends influenced her?
2007-03-04 16:44:50 · 4 answers · asked by Clark K. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-04 16:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got the same problem. there is not much u can do. u have to wait untill she makes the first move. and treat her like a friend and take things slow. dont look to desperate. it might take some time but if u really love her, u got to keep on fighting. all da best.
2007-03-05 00:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is not something you overcome in one day...before contacting her again, analize your feelings about YOU...if you are really suspicious about her, is it you, or is it that she is giving you real signs not to be confident with her....Love is something so overwhelming and overpowering that...if it is really you who are not self confident, you will find the strength in your heart and soul to gain her love again....i am sure you will know the way.
wish you the best
2007-03-05 00:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by MARIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she told you the spark was gone, You need to accept that and move on. It is over youcan't make her change her mind( neither could her friends if she loved you) dont go backwards, move on with your life.
2007-03-05 00:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋