Ok so I'm 14 but for my 15th b-day I'd like to get my belly button pierced. Not because every one is doing it or anything like that but I like actually like them and stuff. My dad says to wait until I'm 16 but the thing with that is I want it this b-day not only because I cant wait but because I might be joining track next yr. and NO jewelry aloud or anything and my b-day is during track season so I wouldnt be able to get it pierced. I'm trying to convince him with everything I got including I'll even pay for it and it'll be on my own b-day so I think that's kinda generous you know? but like what should I do because I cant wait till I'm 16 I would either have to do it after track season but then I have cheerleading and stuff so that will make it worse or now when I'm juss managing track instead of actually doing track so I wouldnt have to do anything you know? Because all I'll have to do is carry stuff hand out water and write out distances, etc. so what should I do and am I too young?
2007-03-04 15:56:52 · 19 answers · asked by Kendra 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Tattoos
Wait till your 18, if you still want one that bad go for it. Otherwise no matter what you say you are doing it because everyone else is, otherwise you would be able to wait. A close friend of mine had hers done when she was 14 (25 now) and even though it's not permanent it has stretched a nasty looking hole because she was young, active, and played with it. If it is something you really want for you, wait till it is legal, and you understand the consequences of not taking care of it.
2007-03-05 02:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by ○•○•Cassie•○•○ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, all I have to say is the 20 year old that claims her belly piercing is as beautiful as the day she got, must not have had any children. I would not recommend it at all if you plan on becoming a mother some day. I was pregnant at 19 with my first born, and no, I am not fat or anything, 5'3" and 105 when I got my piercing, but being pregnant and all, it does not look sexy. You will regret it. I'd wait a little longer to see if you don't change your mind altogether. But, if you still decide you'd like to do it, then I would tell your dad that you will have a doctor pierce it for you. They usually charge a little bit more, but it should make your parents feel a little bit more comfortable with the whole thing. Hope this helps out.
2007-03-04 17:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by madisons_mommy520 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont really think that you're too young for a navel peircing. I had mine done when I was 16. But, the big thing is that your parents are saying no. Instead of arguing or pouting, spend this time researching shops around your area, finding out the prices and recommendations. Many states will not peirce under 16 period, with or without consent.
The more information you have, the more mature you're being in making the decision. Once you have alot of information, sit down with your parents and explain why you would like it, why you would like it for your 15th birthday, and then go on to explain all of the research you've done. Ask them to think about it, and maybe visit some places with you and talk to the artists. Above all be respectful of your parents wishes. If they say 'you're too young.' Instead of whining 'whyyyy' or yelling 'no i'm not!' sit down and calmly say to them 'I understand that you feel that way, but I've done alot of research to show you that I am really interested in this, and I want to know the pros, cons, and any possible consequences. Even if you're still unhappy with the idea, would you mind going through this with me, and letting me know if i left anything out for future reference?' The more mature you are, the more likely they are going to be to let you have it. Above all, stay calm, respectful, and make sure they know you're listening to them.
2007-03-05 09:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by elisabeth_rose88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's too young, but you do have to have your dad's signature. I got mine done when I was 20 and my dad flipped out! My only worry is that you can't take out body jewelry for long periods of time. I've had mine pierced for two years, and I've had it grow over partially after the ring was only out for a few hours when one of the balls fell off. Then I had to sort of repierce it myself--hurts way more than getting it pierced the first time.(which didn't hurt at all) You can get clear retainers, but you can't go without the jewelry---that's definitely something to consider. Good luck!
2007-03-04 16:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt.. how logn till cheerleading and track???? a navel piercing can take a FULL year to heal..mine is 9 months old and still healing... i woudlnt get it till you're out of high school your navel will always be there when you are done with your sports!! plus you are not done growing. your hips and all..your skin will change giving you an increased risk for rejection and migration... navelpiercings take alot of care! you need to be very responsibel wiht it! its not a normal ear piercing... at all... i would wait if i were you...
2007-03-05 10:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are not too young, but you should probably listen to your dad. No sense in getting in trouble. Definitely do not pierce it yourself either. I did that when I was younger, and it looked so dumb. Now I am 22 and I have mine prfessionally pierced, and I love it. Tell him that you do not want it to show it off to guys, etc. That you like them and just want it for you.....that you can always take it out, and that it isn't permanant. Agree to no more piercing after that til you are 18, and let him know that the scar is minimal.
Good luck!
2007-03-05 02:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HEY! I got my belly button pierced for my 8th grade graduation. If you are gonna get it done, then do it now, because it needs 6 months to heal up. So with track and cheerleading (i have done both) itll be easier to rip it out. Explain to your dad that you want it because you like them, not because its considered "sexy" or for whatever reason he thinks you want it. Also explain to him about the healing time and such. Or try making him a deal. For example "If you let me get it done, I'll make straight A's on my next 3 report cards" or whatever. If he still says no, then let it go for a while. Just make sure you are mature about it. The belly ring is not going to make you appear "easy" don't listen to that guy on ur answer board, and besides, tattoos are permanent, piercings aren't. Good luck!
2007-03-04 16:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yes, it to young now Dear. The things that you think you want now are not the things you will want 10 years from now. Give yourself a chance to change your mind a couple of times. You have a long time to do it if you want just a little older.
2007-03-04 16:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by Toolegit 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know you hate to hearken to this yet you would possibly want to attend everybody is ideal except ashton who i completely disagree with I have my abdomen button pierced and im no longer lower priced yet you would possibly want to attend there might want to correctly be extra complications on the on the spot
2016-10-17 10:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by pipe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason that you can't wait....neither of my daughters had belly button piercing (or tattoos until they were 18) ....
just one tattooed wise@sses opinion
2007-03-04 16:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by Rider (12NI) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋