being plus sized?

Question

i hate how several people in my family think im fat ....there all skinny... they all tell me that i should go on a diet... i might be plused sized but im perfectly fit and i like the way i am ...i ask other people if they think im fat and they say im perfectly fit and actually in great shape...i dont under how other people think im perfectly in shape while other people find me fat and bit overweight...is there something about being plus sized that makes u fat or in great shape

Answer 1

Eat healthy food, get enough exercise and realize that if you are happy with yourself then it is the OTHER people who have the hang up, not you. (hard to do in our society, but not impossible)If you have managed to avoid catching our societies' weight obsession, bless you and please don't take it up. Good luck!

Answer 2

What you think is the most important. However, from my experience, if people are saying you are fat, then maybe it's time to have an open mind and go see a doctor to find out what he/she thinks. If your doctor says you are OK, then you are OK. If he/she says you are overweight, then thank your family for caring enough to be honest. I have seen so-called friends telling a 5'7 220 female that she was just perfect in size. Honesty is the best policy and it is HOW it is brought to your attention that makes the difference.

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Answer 3

Get in your head and examine yourself. If you are TRULY happy with the way you feel and the way you look then FORGET what other people think or say. It's about YOU...it's YOUR body, YOUR life and YOUR opinion matters most!

Answer 4

As long as you are comfortable and happy with yourself, then it doesn't matter what others think! Just keep doing what your doing and stay healthy!

Answer 5

If you are happy with how you look and feel that is all that matters

Answer 6

shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks of you...just what you think of yourself