Miscarriage...Postive stories of babies after miscarriages...Please?

Question

Basically after 3 miscarriages im feeling a little down and would love to hear POSITIVE stories of people who have gone on to have babies after a miscarriage. Thanks =)

Answer 1

I remember my teacher in primary school had 8 miscarriages before finally having a beautiful boy. Then went on to have I think it was two more kids.
I personally have lost a baby before each succesful pregnancy.
So my first died when I was 4 and a half months along. I went for the ultrasound and there was no heartbeat( My Mum's birthday). I had to have a D&C the next day (Christmas Eve). Christmas was not a happy one that year. Once I was able, we tried desperately to fall pregnant again, didnt happen so we stopped. The next month I was pregnant. So that was 3 months after the D&C. My beautiful baby is now 6 yrs old and doing great.
When she was around 1 yr old, I fell pregnant again but miscarried at 4 weeks. I went on the mini pill, because I was so scared of it happening again. I didnt like the mini pill, so I stopped taking it. Fell pregnant again pretty much straight away (again 3 months after losing baby) and went on to have another beautiful daughter who is now 4.
At the moment I want another baby ( both girls put an order in for 2 brothers) but am deathly scared of having to lose another baby before actually having a succesful pregnancy. But I know even though it will hurt if I lose another one, it will be worth it to have a succesful pregnancy. And hold my baby in my arms and watch them grow and laugh and smile.
I'm so sorry for your losses, and hope and pray that your nextpregnancy will end with a beautiful healthy baby for you to love and adore.
I thought I"d share my thoughts on why our babies are taken from us before we get to hold them and love them like we want.
I believe that these babies are just too good for this earth and so God takes them straight up to heaven to be angels.
I think I like that better than all the other comments you get from people that are trying to make you feel better but they just make you feel worse.

I pray that soon you get the beautiful blessing you want.

Answer 2

I had a miscarriage, and then a baby not long after, then another miscarriage. Considering I was told I'd never get pregnant, I considered that one a blessing. Two years later I go pregnant again, and we rejoiced and thought we'd never get pregnant again. Then #3 was born 18 months after #2...WOW! Then #4 was 15 months after #3, then 18 months later #5....we started thinking it was some kind of cosmic joke! #6 was born two years after #5, and number seven (we call her seven of seven) was born two years after #6.

My SIL also faced several miscarriages, four or five I think, she stopped telling us after a while. She got pregnant about ten years ago though, and then popped out FIVE in ten years. So we're both quite pleased with our little blessings.

I'm sorry for your loss, I don't know what else to tell you except to keep your hopes up. I never thought I'd be so blessed, and I remember those days of dread, every month of praying. We were total nuts during our pregnancies, especially since all of our miscarriages were after 12 weeks...far into the trimester of 'safety'.

Answer 3

Miscarriages are more common than people think, a woman will at least have one in her life time. I had one after our first child and was down for months it really scares you to get pregnant again, but we got pregnant after a few months and everything went perfectly fine, my friend also lost 3, but then she had twins and her third a year ago, don't give up but DO FIND a good Doctor that will monitor you close from the begining and try to find answers to why it keeps hapening that way you will know what is going on, if they tell you you are healty and there is nothing wrong keep trying because a lot of times nature knows what is doing and if there is something wrong with the embrio it will terminate the preganancy, good luck with everything, don't give up!

Answer 4

I know how you feel I had 2 miscarriages.They told me I would not be able get pregnant without the help of ivf. 2 months after my last miscarriages I got pregnant without any help from the doctors and my son is now 18 months old, happy and healthy. I don't know if you believe in the power of prayer. But once I learn to let go and let God he step right in and answered my prayer. Good luck to you, I will keep you in my prayer.

Answer 5

i had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy and than a month later got pregnant with my son and than 18 months later i had my daughter i had another miscarriage and then went on to have my youngest son i recently had another miscarriage and i am just waiting to try again. i am so sorry for your loss just try to be positive and don't give up it will all turn out. i wish you the best of luck !

Answer 6

My mom had 6 miscarriages before she and my dad adopted me. Once they calmed down about having kids, they became pregnant when I was a few months old.

Sadly my brother died at a young age due to illness (cancer), but the best advice I can give you is to let your body recover and to TRY to do the impossible and get your mind off of kids. Get a dog or a cat--ENJOY sex for recreation and not procreation. The best way is to just relax and now assume anything.

Answer 7

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infertility can run in the family and one of the first things the doctor asks you when you go to a fertility clinic is your family history regarding cases of infertility or other reproductive issues.
If infertility is caused by genetic disorder then it's not unusual that one of the kids (your mom) doesn't have it and another does (your aunt).
two months of trying is still to early to be concerned about the fact that you might be infertile and it's also quite early to go to a fertility specialist. Go to a regular Obgyb to get a closer insight and see what ways there are are to improve your fertility rate.
Also remove alcohol, caffeine and cigarettes from your life because they might influence your chances too. Stress is also a risk factor when it comes to infertility.

Answer 8

my mom had 5 miscarriages before she had me
i also have 2 younger brothers so dont worry the right time will come
my mom was on birth control for many years so it made it hard to concieve or hold the baby to term but just hang in there and god bless
:)

Answer 9

i had many, many miscarriages before my first son, doctors even told me i could not carry any children to think about alternatives, Michael is 17 this month, Steven just turned 15 David will be12 in may, Samuel is 2 and baby Sarah is 6 months, doesn't get more positive then that, you will be in my prayers, good luck

Answer 10

I had six full term, perfectly healthy babies after a miscarriage!