I just dont know what to do. I feel like almost every girl out there is dirty and immoral. I just want someone who can be loving, caring, who is serious about long term committment. Someone who is thinking about marriage. I may be too young to be thinking about settling down, but that is what ive been looking for all my life. Just a soulmate, one single person out there who wants to share their world with mine. What do I do about this feeling of hopelessness? Where is my soulmate? Why does it seem like im the most emotional guy out there? Everyone else seems to act like whatever in their relationships but i cry and feel my heart break everytime. Anyone out there feel what Im saying?
2007-03-04 15:41:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow I wish there were more guys out there like you. Some girls really care about morals. It just takes some looking in the rite spots. Dont go to a bar and look for them. Go to church! Im serious. Im so glad to hear that your just looking for someone to connect with other than to just get in her pants! Dont worry she will come. Be yourself and have some confidence. Dont worry about being emotional. Girls like a guy with a soft side. We feel like we dont have to put on an act because you wont juge us. Its going to take time hang in there.
2007-03-04 15:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Crossed Palms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately every love relation aspires to mating. And regarding immorality, if you mean girls who have sex even before marriage, and live their lust too, and if they disturb you, I would recommend you wait and search in the right places for the right girl. And never believe that love is divine. Love is very earthly because you are already thinking of marriage. Love just inspires the good part in you and makes you decide to live with it forever. Don't be concerned about things you are sure you are not going to accept.
2007-03-04 23:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Raj Narayan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not looking in the right places. Be patient, you will find her and she will love you and you both will be perfect for eachother. With sensitivity like yours, you need to realize that some girls aren't attracted to that and lots are. All you need is time. I swear there are so many great, amazing girls out there. From a girls perspective, sometimes it's hard for us bacause we feel like the only way to get a guy is to be slutty. If you show us that you want something else, we'll give it. I'm sure you'll find her.
2007-03-04 23:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by hallie67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. these days people just hook up with each other even if they don't care for each other and then move on to other people. Our world has become very immoral. I am a female, maybe I can be of your assistance. I feel the way you do in a way.
2007-03-04 23:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by M.K. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've just run into the wrong girls...
Seriously...NOT all girls are like that and you know that.
You just have had a string of bad luck/bad timing.
Maybe you just need to stop looking and focus on the other things in your life that are important. Perhaps a girl is supposed to come to you...
If not. Just keep trucking, build yourself up and when you have regained confidence, go out there and try again.
Best of luck to you.
2007-03-04 23:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by shaigrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just don't look so hard. Chill. When you find yourself going head over heels, then go in. Whatever age you are, there are gonna be a whole load of relationships that last for a very short time. Just don't start thinking every time, "Is she the one?" If she is, time will show you. So just relax, let time run its course.
2007-03-04 23:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to my world. Honestly they are incredibly difficult to find. Why? Because most girls are naive or hypocrites...until they become women. Let me explain... The ones who are naive date bad guys and have obvious signs that the guy is not a great guy to date but they lie to themselves that they need him or that all guys are like that and that he truly does care about her. Then finally she gets tired of his sh*t and it f*cks her up mentally. These are the girls who you will most likely end up with once they've relived that same thing over and over. Thus, the naivity. The hypocrites are the ones who claim they don't care about looks and desire good guys with personality...yada yada yada... But they end up dating some douchebag who most likely gets them pregnant and ruins their lives to which will be single moms that are desperately seeking anyone who will take them. So...this means that if you are looking for someone and you are below age 28...you won't find anyone. They aren't mature enough to understand a relationship like you can. Just wait until they catch up then you'll have plenty to choose from.
2007-03-04 23:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Justin G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW !!!
I don't know where you are looking, but it is truly in the wrong place. I want you to think about that. You go in the places where dirty morals must be, if that is what you find.
Time to go somewhere else, you think? Or.you go where you go
because part if you wants a girl from there. If not, you already know where the nice girls are, so go there.
2007-03-05 01:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by sdm12957 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Juan... try to relax and let it happen. When you less expect the right girl is going to show up. By the way, not all girls, women are dirty and immoral. Please try to keep in mind the places that you go to in order to find a nice girl. Good Luck! :)
2007-03-04 23:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Dengosa27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't find a girl because you're actually looking for your soul mate, your dream girl.
Why not date a few women who have it together and see where it goes? Like you said, you're young and still have time. When you do meet that special girl, you will know.
2007-03-04 23:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋