We've been dating for a little over a month and I've done all the chessy and romantic stuff (ex. poems, flowers, candy, movies, ect.) and I know I love her and want to spend my life with her... But when I say I love her she says she doesn't know since I'm her first bf... Help me...
2007-03-04 15:24:52 · 6 answers · asked by detlionsfan1218 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are very end 8th grade, high-school freshman and I'm goin to an all-guys school and she's goin to an all girl's school, but right now we're in the same school... I'm her first bf but shes my like 4th or 5th gf... And though it may seem wierd, I feel like she is the one... I'm also brand new to this school and about 5 girls have tried to break us up cuz they want me... But is there a way to tell if she loves me? If so wat?
2007-03-04 15:50:16 · update #1
She probably won't say she loves you because you're her first one so she doesn't have any experience........
Sorry...
but it's practically impossible to say it and really mean it if you're the one boyfriend she's ever had.
besides it's only been like one month.... don't rush.
2007-03-04 16:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time to adjust to relationship life. Make her feel as comfortable as possible and don't put a lot of pressure on her. Also, you really shouldn't be at the point of loving each other yet, it's only been a little over a month! Give it some time, and don't rush things.
2007-03-04 15:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. Don't tell her you love her because you're putting her in a spot. If she doesn't feel the same way, she's too shy to tell you or doesn't want to hurt your feelings or, if she feels the same way she's shy.
You two haven't been dating long enough to be in love. Deep like happens first & its wonderful, isn't it? Love happens when deep like keeps going on for 5 or 6 months or more. Even if it turns out to be 'like' not 'love' its a great feeling. Like and love is often confused by adults.
2007-03-04 16:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say coz i dunno ur ages; but lets presume you're grade school or high school freshmen.
Since you are her 1st b/f, sorry mate; coz you'll ain't living together. Its just life. But if you give each other time (I know it'll be hard) and see how you'll get along with others, she will realize that she did love you. Girls find it hard to forget boys; so even if she dates another guy, she'll still (probably) be thinking about you, and when they break up (yes, they will) you can be there (as a friend) supporting her. Then she'll realize that you were her love, and you'll may get back together; this time 4 life.
2007-03-04 15:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick Mondal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its her first time knowing what LOVE really is. GIve her more time so she could understand what LOVE is. Also, help her to understand what it means. Good Luck!
2007-03-04 15:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe slow it down alittle. and take time
2007-03-04 15:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋