I found out that my friend likes me what do i do? Also i don't know why she would like me because she always punches me. . . . . anyways help me out
2007-03-04 15:22:43 · 15 answers · asked by William S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls that are friends that punch mean no harm.
1. if you like her, then let your feelings flow and let you love go...
2. if you DONT LIKE HER, which seems to be the problem,
dont go for the cliche "i think ur a really kool person an stuff but i think we should remain friends"
ask her why she likes you and tell her your situation, if you think friends as girlfriends are not your thing or if you dont like her qualities,,,, if she really likes u she would understand that, you cant live a lie by being with her, and you would prefer not to do that because you care for her as a friend.
hope i helped
2007-03-04 15:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by lyrical.disaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, did she tell you, or did you hear through the grapevine? If she told you, cool. If you heard it through the grapevine, be careful, it may be speculation.
The punching thing is often an attention getter. It's a way of saying "Hey! Look at me!" It's pretty basic flirting. Doesn't always make a lot of sense sometimes, but there are times when girls just don't know how to tell a guy they want some attention. There's a stigma to such things.
If you like her back, and she told you herself, I'd say ask her out. If you don't like her like that, and she told you herself, it's time to figure out how to approach the topic gently. If it's all hearsay, you can ask her flat out if you're close.
Good luck!
2007-03-04 15:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you're heart tells you to do. go for it only if you have the same feelings for. but if you don't feel the same way, don't lead her on! solve that soon and you can save ur friendship. i'm sure u both hav a lot in common as friends so it may not hurt to give her a try. u already know about her but be sure not to hurt her feelings. (and don't force urself to like her out of pity either, too many friends do that when it's just not right:)
2007-03-04 15:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by evanescent_eclipse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like this friend of yours? Girls have a weird way of showing that they like you, obviously shes trying not to show you that she likes you because shes trying to give you the tough exterior.... She's somewhat flirting with you in other words, trying to find a way just a get a little touching in there, if you like her ask her out on a date, see what she's like outside of everyone else. If you don't like her then you need to tell her.. I wish you both the best!
2007-03-04 15:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you like her back?? if you do then you should ask her out...and then you guys could be boyfriend and girlfriend...and her punching you is maybe her way of flirting with you...who knows....some girls show that they like someone by being mean to them...but if you don't like her, then let her know that you just want to be friends.....but DON'T be mean to her when you tell her...cause then you might lose you're friendship.
2007-03-04 15:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Miss SWAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she punches you because shes probablly trying to be flirty, or shes just physical.lol, so, if you dont like her, then tell her that you would rather just be friends with her,but if u do like her, then go for it! lol, good luck!
2007-03-04 15:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the question is do you like her back. The reason she punches you is cus thats a way of flirting. If you do like her back pretend like it hurts they like that. Tell me if you like her back to cus i can prolly help.
2007-03-04 15:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you like her back, then go for it. if you don't, don't lead her on. i think you should give her a chance though, chances are she's a great girl. and since you already have the friend thing down, your relationship would be really great. don't treat her any differently though ok! hurry, you'll lose your chance with her if you don't act fast!
2007-03-04 15:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by rubydoobydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh. when girl punch or something to you, she wants attention from you and thats a way how she likes you.
2007-03-04 15:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she likes you! I also wondered myself about my own case that happens to be real, and she told me why. It's just good to now the reasons why somebody likes you. So, just ask her! GO! Now!
2007-03-04 15:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by p45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋