2007-03-04 15:17:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell them your not into relatonships right now
(i have the same problem! were geek magnets)
2007-03-04 15:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation, a lot of 'nerdy' girls like me. I make friends with some of them. So maybe you should get a boyfriend who attracts nerdy girls, that way you are both in the same league.
I can be considered a bit of a "nerd" myself though since I plan on majoring in Engineering and will likely make $75k+ to start, so like others are saying don't be mean to them since they will be more successful than the football jock who bags groceries for a living.
I would suggest actually getting to know some of them, and I'm pretty sure that not all "nerds" are unattractive. Who knows, you may have more in common with them than you thought! Its better to be friends with everybody and earn their respect rather than to be some stuck up b**** who only socializes with jocks and crap like that.
2007-03-04 23:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what you mean when you refer to nerdy guys, but just as some guys on here say i dont like her because she is fat and then a girl responds, well thats all you deserve. Its the same thing.
Never judge a book by its cover, as all that do end up having the worst relationships.
2007-03-04 23:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that you have guys pay attention to you. There will be a day where it will be far less frequent - so in the meantime, try not to acquire too much bad Karma. Try to be gracious. Dont make excuses, thats insulting to thier integrity and intelligence. Simply smile, say thank you, but decline the invitation.
2007-03-04 23:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do dont say i like you as a friend. Try to make them understand or get a boyfriend of your stature that you will like. That way they will forget about you.
2007-03-04 23:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with them, what else.... your only in 8th grade... do u know how many girls would like to have a boy like them.. just chill dont let him think you like,,, just be friends.... You woryy to much time is presies... just enjoy i am sure things will get better....
for future if a guy likes you and you dont liek him.... just chill things will move one.... BE happy
2007-03-04 23:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually it helps to tell them that you appreciate their liking you, but you don't think things will work out just now. But if you're smart, don't just rub them off entirely; they might be the next Bill Gates, you know...
2007-03-04 23:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here, i was nice to them, but not friendly...becuase i didnt really want to have them get the idea that i am trying to be friendly in order to make a move as a friend or partner...
so be nice to them when you have to, do NOT got out of your way to do anything with or for them
sometimes, if its really bad, just ignore that CRAP outta them, theyll get the idea
2007-03-04 23:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest giving them a shot... it isn't like looks is everything and geeky guys are the best.
2007-03-04 23:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by smohs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nerdy guys become wealthy men ...They become fiscally handsome!
2007-03-04 23:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Clueless Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋