I have know this guy off the internet and actually was smart and met him for the first time in a public place. Everything went wonderful and we actually hit it off. Well, after about a month all he does is text me and wants to chat on messenger? He just won't call me on the phone and I have asked him nicely to. He wants to stay friends because I told him I want for him to call me more but he just won't. What would you do? I really liked him but I can't deal with just the "im" thing and text messaging? I have already told him this is getting me upset and frustrated and now he won't answer my text? Any advice??
2007-03-04 15:14:57 · 7 answers · asked by Holly B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, forget about him. For some reason this loser has decided not to see actually see you again and just doesn't want to come out and say it. I would try and find someone that want's to be seen or at least be around you in public. This guy just sounds like a puss for some reason. I'd forget about him and move on if I were you...
2007-03-04 15:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things and they are bad things. Worst part is that there's nothing you can do about it. Sorry... hope you will see what I say as helpful though.
He is either not attracted to you physically or he already has a girlfriend. Physical is important because that is what separates the best female friend from a relationship girl. Personality IS important, but if he can't feel arousal from your looks, not only will he be frustrated, but you will too. You will feel AWFUL and UNATTRACTIVE. Stay away from this and don't press on it. The other thing just means he's dishonest and a wussy.
So yeah. Meet more guys. Online is a BACKUP, not a main approach. Go to charities, health food stores, gyms, community service places, dance clubs (DANCE CLUBS, not normal clubs), or malls (in a stylish store) for great guys. Bars suck and other "typical places". You want a GREAT guy. Other places are dance classes, art studios, museums, but they have less guys (But they are better than most).
Hope I helped,
Franklin
2007-03-04 15:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its one of three things:
it sounds like he liked you TOO much and cant deal with the distance. he wants to be with you so bad and it hurts since he cant. since guys usually have a hard time dealing with emotions, hes doing the best thing he can to stop the pain, so hes avoiding you.
or, he didnt have THAT great and realized he doesnt want a long distance relationship and moved on.
or, hes a player and played you and now ditched you.
2007-03-04 15:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to ditch you... sorry to break the news to you, but being a guy, I know how these things work (I've played these games too). Move on, find someone better... he's not worth it.
2007-03-04 15:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by jh361 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but he is not interested in you or has someone else and does not want you to know.
2007-03-04 15:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep player, move on
2007-03-04 15:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by theoldbgee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him either he gets all of you or none of you because otherwise you are wasting your time hon.
2007-03-04 15:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by hallie67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋