I met this girl and we have gotten to know each other quite well. We have become quite close and we are now best friends. We can talk to each other about anything, anytime. Recently, as I have gotten to know her much more I think I have started to like her. She likes to tickle me and touch my hair and stuff. We always talk and hang out together. She always tells me how much she misses me and that she thinks about me a lot. We talk to each other about our dreams, and she tells me she dreams about me almost every night. However, she already has a boyfriend. I am not the kind of guy that will try to get them to break up or something, I actually talk to her about relationship problems she has with him. I am confused and I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about her. I always want to be near her when I'm not around her. My question is, should I tell her how I feel? And does it sound like she likes me? I'm afraid that our friendship will be ruined. Please help. Thanks in advance.
2007-03-04 15:11:41 · 7 answers · asked by qwerty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh boy, she likes you alright. Make a move - if you don't - you may regret it.
2007-03-04 15:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her that she means a lot to you. But you know, the best thing to do is just be there for her whatever it is. Just be her friends no matter what's happening. She will know (probably she'd known already) that you care about her. But consider this: Is she gonna be happier with her current boyfriend, or with you? If you can't figure that out, ask her that, but mask it. Don't just ask her flat-out down to the point. Mask the question, make it casual, ask her what she thinks of you. Then it will go as things go. I found out that some girls appreciate guys with courage.
And of course you can't stop thinking about her, I know how you feel. It's hard not to think about a girl you care so much, huh?!
Oh, one thing though, don't act like you're stalking her!!! That's the worse because some girls I know thought that it's really creepy to have some guys stalking them.
Good luck!
2007-03-04 23:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by p45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are screwed...you are the "other man" the one that gives her things she isnt getting with her bf...and probably wont get from future boyfriends, and she knows this and will keep you around to always fulfill that role. You are a sounding board, but she doesnt want to leave him...just realize now it wont happen, or you will be miserable for as long as you are friends in at least a small way...
2007-03-04 23:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance and i were exactly like this - we were best friends and i was with another guy. i couldn't get as close to my bf as i could with my fiance - then best friend - and then one day, out of the blue, he told me that he loved me. i had spent a while knowing that i loved him, wondering if he felt the same way and being flustered with the guy that i was with. tell her how you feel!!
2007-03-04 23:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by amymrgrt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might as well because its gonna keep bugging you and your feelings will probably grow even fonder. If you tell her, then you know where she stands and where you stand as well and get over it.
2007-03-04 23:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its hard........ like u said it can ruined ur friendship......... but, i think its better 4 tell her the truth......... after that, its up 2 her......... coz obviouslly its not bout u n her but remember. there's another guy......... n what important is u have a willing tell her bout what u feeling................
2007-03-04 23:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by sheila y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her.. but dont expect her to break it off with her bf...
its not fair to you or the other guy to be strung along like this.
2007-03-04 23:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋