We live in California and my mother-in-law lives in Arizona and it's becoming difficult for her to visit and us in turn. My husband's concrete business has slowed down significantly and the cost of living is high and we're barely making ends meet, but we love the area and the climate. She emailed us today asking if we would like to move to Phoenix or the outskirts of Phoenix and my husband is willing to jump at it, but I have never been to Phoenix and don't know anything about it. Needless to say, I am terrified of going. I've heard that it is extremely hot in the summer and I don't know about the job potential there, the average pay, the average cost of rent and if it's high like California's, and which area are the best to live. I don't want to hurt my husband's feeling nor my mother-in-laws feelings if we don't move because of them now reconnecting after 13 years, but I am seriously terrified. If someone knows more info on Phoenix it would be appreciated.
2007-03-04 14:58:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Phoenix is hot--dry heat in summer. But hot is hot. The place is in the desert, so you might appreciate the opportunity to see a whole new world. the city offers everything, it would be up to you to find stuff to do. Seriously--investigate the crime statistics--- a lot of gangs and guns--but that is everywhere now. You have to be responsible for your own well being no matter where you live. Jobs are tough to come by--everyone seems to make the same--if you don't want the jobs, some others will take them. Downsize your style of life--make an effort to get rid of the crap, keep and maintain what you really need. Getting a place is a matter of checking with realtors...the better places will always get more money--that again is everywhere you go.School an issue?? Moving costs an Issue?? How about a change in careers?? get a city job---husband interested in fire or police work??Top notch fire, ems and police out there.The sky is the limit--you just need to step out and look around.....can you take a week to check the real issues out there---proper planning prevents poor performance----chances favor the prepared mind.Good luck to you
2007-03-04 15:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tough choice, I think California is worth the high price you pay, but if you are struggling too much... maybe it is better to go where it is more affordable.
Look at Craigslist to get an idea of the cost of living and pay out there:
http://phoenix.craigslist.org/
It is much cheaper than say, SoCal, and I think the jobs pay the same. There was a major bubble there even up to a year ago, because Californians were leaving for more affordable living. That has calmed down a lot. I'm sure it is nice out there, I know a lot people that live out there and they are nicer than SoCal people! :-) Nevada is another option...
Florida has a pleasant climate too and is much cheaper, but then your mom is not out there either.
Anyway, hopefully I've been of some help!
2007-03-04 15:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by jayne_galaxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could move into the Phoenix area but DH sunburns as soon as he steps outside there. lol. They do have beautiful homes going up all around the city and there is tons of recreational stuff to do. The nice winter weather makes up for a lot of the summer heat.
If you aren't sure about living so close to your MIL but think a move out of high cost Cali might be in order you could look at Tucson, AZ or areas up in the White Mountains of AZ. It can be a lot cooler outside of the dessert basin.
You can compare costs of living, schools, crime and look at home and rental costs at http://moving.move.com/move/Default.asp?lnksrc=MVEHPMOV01&poe=homestore
2007-03-05 01:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Critter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a million community technicians in Phoenix. New Mexico has a booming interest industry and fee of residing is greater low fee than Phoenix. Phoenix is a huge city, yet once you do in contrast to a hundred and fifteen+ climate interior the summertime, Albuquerque is the area for you.
2016-09-30 05:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by betker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love your husband, and he has reconnected with his mom after 13 years. i say move for him. and if it doesnt work out, you can always move somewhere else, or back to your old town, but it sounds like your husband really needs this shot to be close to his mother.
if i were you, i would google all there is to know about phoenix and the surrounding areas,
im sure you can find out all the information you are wanting to know. good luck and i hope you make the right descion.
2007-03-04 15:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by midnyghtcloud 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lived there for over 26 years.... beautiful place!
I also lived in Cali for over 7 years.....we moved back to PHX and were able to buy twice the home and still have money left over to enjoy life.
We still vacationed in Cali...and will when we moved back to the states.....
The advice I can honestly give is the heat is worth the the money you save there is always a pool in almost every back yard and AC.....
Best wishes
Remember its about you and your hubby....where ever you are ...as long as you are together...You Make Home....make sense...
2007-03-04 16:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to base your decision on the weather, when you two are having trouble making ends meet?
2007-03-04 15:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey girl just do what you think you want to move move or just stay wich one you pick
2007-03-04 15:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by yo3jo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move to your own space!
2007-03-04 16:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Gabrio 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋