Well, see theres this boy and i met him though a friend.....oh lets see about maybe 4 months ago....well, he got send overseas and before he left we became well good freinds....like i would go see him and ya know do things with him....but then the calls stop coming ...he never calleld me while he was over there or anything i thougt that was funny,,,, he called me the day that his unit flew back to the army base here and askeed me if i mind coming and pickin him up at the walmart and talkin him home.....i was busy so i couldnt...one of my friends said that it sounds like he was trying to use me and had already had. then last night i called him to see if he would talk and he told me that he was at the store and call me bac....there was to much noise to be a store....But i wanted him to call and he nevver did. To me it all sounds strange...But i dont know what to do.....I care about him and want to be freinds,,,,but it seem like he all wants to do is use me. What should I do??
2007-03-04 14:29:50 · 7 answers · asked by alyssa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl it sounds like he got what he wanted before he left to go overseas and when he got back was looking for the same thing again. Do yourself a favor and move on cause he will just uses you like a door mat and walk all over you.
2007-03-04 14:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by jcmc3056 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I'm kind of in the same situation, so I understand that you want to be with him and and that you're attracted to him. It's so hard to let go when all your friends tell you to. When we like a guy, we're much more willing to forgive, even if he doesn't deserve it. This guy obviuously doesn't know what he wants or at least won't tell you. So unless this guy changes, I say give him space and move on. If you let him use you now, he always will.
2007-03-04 22:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by hallie67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but he's lost interest in you. Now he just sees you as a useful object that can drive him around places. Cut off connections with him and find someone else.
2007-03-04 22:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and don't sweat him!!! If he won't even call you back when he says he is going to then he's not worth it! Because if you "like" hm and you guys get together then who knows what he will pull! He is probably just using you.. trust me I've had it happen to me!! Be careful!
2007-03-04 22:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by jasmyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and look for someone else. This sounds like he really isn't interested in you, but only what you can do for him. You can do better and deserve better than being used and only called if he needs you.
2007-03-04 22:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by jani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to keep you on a string
He's only after one thing
You are worth much more than that
DELETE HIS NUMBER
2007-03-04 22:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by snowluk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he disrespects you disrespect him back. Stand up for your self
2007-03-04 22:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by Parth S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋