I was just wondering if anyone has ever tried that and what are some ideas? I want him back..he moved so far away to take a job with his dad but we stayed together but he called and broke up with me over a month ago..I am 8 months pregnant..I am concentrating on my lil baby boy but I can't but want him back also. He thinks I am dating someone and is calling more often but today we decided not to talk on the phone for awhile while we clear our heads. What steps do I take for him to realize what he is giving up? We are young 22&23..been together for 7 years. His dad walked out on him when he was a baby and my father did the same to me. I can't help but feel like the same old patterns are repeating themselves. He has no family here but me and his son. He says he won't move back here and that if we EVER get back together I would have to move there, which I would. Ideas?
2007-03-04 14:26:40 · 2 answers · asked by maryjane_catnip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There's confusion in your question! Never mind!
He could have come under his deserting dad's influence who'll care the least about you, not knowing you. But if your boyfriend/husband is inviting you to his place (be it far away), you need go to him if he's serious. But before doing that make sure he does not have the misconception of you dating others in his absence since that could be case for future breakup. Better now than late.
You haven't, dear, said whether the two of you are married or otherwise. It is not in the least HEALTHY to have children outside the marriage cottage but it does take place in the West, no wonder.
There's no smallest reason why the baby should suffer because the mischief of the two of you. If he's willing to marry you, then go to him, but if he wants to continue dating for free, give it up this very moment. Why waste time with a reluctant person, who during the curse of 7 years of relationship, couldn't make his mind up and still worse that is suspicious of you. Unless truly you are involved in other datings which you shouldn't had to because of what is WITHIN you...
If you can talk to his father, the desrter, and browse his mind, for a shortcut answer then do it fast. Wish you and your baby a good future.
2007-03-04 14:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Shangubi.. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 00:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋