can you love two guys at the same time?
2007-03-04 14:26:11 · 13 answers · asked by Love Land 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep. I was seeing this guy for awhile and we were really into each other. But things didn't work out and he enlisted in the Navy.yet, I still had feelings for him. So later I reunited w/this guy who used to be my neighbor and we started seeing a lot of each other. I fell hard for him and then the worst thing happened. My first guy came back into town to visit. I had thought after a year I had lost my feelings for him. But no. When I first saw him and we got to talking, all those old feelings came rushing back. It was so hard not to act on them.
There were different things that I liked in both of them and there was no way I was gonna choose. But in the end I didn't have much of a choice. I slipped and hooked-up w/the first guy and that ended the relationship with guy#2. So, then me & guy #1 tried to pick up where things had left off from a year earlier but it just didn't work, cause I was missing the other guy terribly. You really can't have your cake & eat it too.
2007-03-04 14:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possibile to love two guys at the same time, you have certain qualities in what you look for in a male, it is hard to find a man that has all the qualities than it is to find a man who has 1/2 of what you want, lets say u found two men and they both had half the qualities, put them together and its all, you get to know them at different times and eventually you are going to fall for both, now comes the hard part, which one am i goin to settle for?
2007-03-04 14:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by HeRe2hElp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess that depends on people but as far as i'm concerned i dont think u can be in love with two people at the sametime not the way u would need to be in love if u wanted a serious long term relationship
2007-03-04 14:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can be confused as to who u really love....cuz u can be fooled and think its love. but if u can TRULY love 2 guys at the same time? erm...i think so, but i think that only one of them is the one u would chooose. like, i f u had to save on of their lives...u would have to think about it....and the one u chose...u can say u just chose because u had to, that u didnt really think about it....but its not really true....u chose the one who u would go as far as u need to, to save their life.
thats what i think.
2007-03-04 14:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Teenager 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not unless you are a two-timer.
2007-03-04 14:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but only one most love...
2007-03-04 19:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by babyga1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe crush on them, but it's not real love
2007-03-04 14:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you could...but I don't know if it holds true. n
2007-03-04 14:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO...not so dynasty ehh after all....
2007-03-04 14:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Thats lust
2007-03-04 14:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by Big Bull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋