I'm a virgin, I'm waiting until I get married. I was just wondering, it's addictive? it's good the first time or when you get use to it? Do you become sexual and confident after having it?
2007-03-04 14:16:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are right to wait until you're married...it will be very special for you and your husband*
To some..it "hurts' the first time...then yes, you get used to it and yes you willl want to make love* alot* You can become more sexual and confident once you've done it*
Just enjoy it the first time on your wedding night....dont' be afraid or tense up , you'll be with the man you love* :) BEST WISHES
2007-03-04 14:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is addictive. The more you have it the more you want it. If you a girl it WILL hurt the first time you do it but buy the end it want be to bad. There are people who have sex that aren't sexually confident so it really depends on you. Read books and magazines regarding the subject so you can pick up a few techniques.
http://www.handjobadvice.com is a good site with video clips.
2007-03-04 22:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until you are married & yes it is sort of is addictive because you love the person so much and want to express that love. And yea I think you become more confident in yourself after having sex, it's like a rite of passage into full sexuality or adulthood. And yes, it's good the first time as long as your partner is the right one and loves you too and is your husband.
2007-03-04 22:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by jani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's awkward and scary at first.
For a guy there is a learning curve before you get good at it. For a girl it's painful at first but just that first time. Afterward for both it is wonderful and very addictive. Greatest thing in the world. You need a good deal of practice before becoming confident.
2007-03-04 22:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry my love it does not work like that! It can b addictive but not after the first time your so worried if your doing things correctly that your not realy comfortable. But the first time u have good sex watch out tell the other person to cancel thier plans your going to b in 4 a little while trying everything your thinking about now. your going 2 b very happy and sore bring some epsom salt it helps. lol!
2007-03-04 22:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really want the truth?
Yes, sex can be addictive....
No..its not good the first time...umm, for us girls. Its always a special memory, but to be honest, I was thinking afterwards..."Is this it? That sucks!"
Now, as to whether you become sexual, and confident afterwards, I think that has to do with your feelings about sex, your partner and how they treated you, and your total feelings combined. I've talked to some women that hated it, because they ended up with a man that was uncaring, and was in it all for himself. So..I hope you find someone to share that moment with that treats it and you as special as you should be treated, that way its wonderful...and meets your expectations.
Cause trust me...lol, sometimes it doesn't add up....
2007-03-04 22:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first time sucks, im a guy, i hated it because i devirginized my gf. And she cried so it sucked. Plus I had to use a condom, cant really feel the feeling that well. But regardless, it gets better, I really really like sex, but I dont get a lot of it. Pretty much masturbation is all I do. The feeling of an orgasm, is the addictive thing. Believe me sex/masturbation is wired into our brains it has to be addictive and in demand if not our species would crumble. Dont be afraid of sex, just be afraid of getting pregnant, STDS (HIV/AIDS).
2007-03-04 22:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Adam B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If he knows what he's doing, you want it ALL the time.
Yes, you become more sexual and confident after it as well.
2007-03-04 22:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time is the worse because it hurts alot but then after a couple times it gets better and it depends on the person if its addicting or not
2007-03-04 22:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im also still a virgin..I guess if you like it, it would get addictive
2007-03-04 22:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋