This ts my first boyfriend and he is a great gye but i just want to look at him as a good friend. If you know what i mean. Do i tell him straight out or do i ease him in? Where do i tell him and when?
2007-03-04 13:55:08 · 11 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would tell him straight up, dont beat around the bush. you can tell him whenever and whereever. i would do it over the phone or in person. have him come over or you can go over to his house. but if this is the way you feel, you should do it soon, dont wait...hope that helps
2007-03-04 13:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are stupid and never get this one right. It speaks well of you that you understand it can be a problem.
If you want to hurt him, do it easy and tell him you can still be friends. Of course that isn't the right answer.
Tell him in an honest and very direct way that you no longer feel that way about him. You need to understand you two can't be friends as he will think he still has a chance to win you back. Go forward and don't look back. Don't see him anymore or take his phone calls. Move on and tell him if you do hear from him that you have found a new boyfriend (whether or not you have), and that you love the new guy very much.
It's like taking a band aid off, quick and to the point. The pain you will be saving will be his.
2007-03-04 22:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is really into you, then he will take it hard but he will understand and if he really likes you then he will still be friends with you when it all does come to an end!! Its probably better that you give it to him straight out and serious!! if you ease him in he will come to bad conclusions and it wont turn out very good in the end!! Its just whenever you think that the time is right! Good Luck!
2007-03-04 22:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by luh luh la reee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl I loved with all my heart and she started to play games and I put up with it for a long time. I did anythihing for her, but enough was enough and I ended it.
Don't play games or beat around the bush, just tell him it's not working out any more.
2007-03-04 22:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by gretsch16pc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first ask why you want to break up with him. if its because you want to date someone else then thats a bunch of horse **** if its because its not working out then just tell him straight out how you feel and make sure you mean it no going back and sucking up drama
2007-03-04 22:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by U.S MARINE GREG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dear. tell him nothing but write him seventeen pages letter with thorough explanation on what you want and why he has to feel good after the break up .. or go together to watch the movie with the same name ;)
2007-03-04 22:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like that verizon commercial.....send a messenger to his house...lol
2007-03-12 02:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by BS2NITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be short and to the point. If you wallow along, he will not take you seriously.
2007-03-04 21:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by naejplman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him straight up
2007-03-04 22:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by G McGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to keep distsnce
2007-03-04 21:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋