Is it bad if I am going out with this guys that I really love but when ever I am around him and my best friend is around too she is the one he mostly talks to? You see I'm in middle school and I have this boyfriend and we have been going out for over a year and when ever we are at school and stuff and I sit by him or walk up to him and if my friend is with me he really only talks to her and not me should I be worried? I know he loves me and I love him more than anything but I sometimes wonder if he loves my best friend more than me!! Plus I also wonder because I have really no classes with him and my best friend has all of her classes with him!!
2007-03-04 13:54:05 · 9 answers · asked by Rach 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
life's too short to be on a guilt trip like this one...either you trust him or you don't ...
2007-03-04 14:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know from personal experience--if you wonder if you can trust your best friend AND your boyfriend (the two people you are supposed to able to trust most) you probably can't, and you definitely need to confront them about the situation. I think you could do better than being with a guy who only talks to you when your best friend isn't around, even if you think you love him. You'll find someone else, believe me.
2007-03-04 14:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going out with you not her so don't sweat it. They just have a lot to talk about having the same classes but you are his girlfriend and have been for a year. Relax and be happy your friend gets along with your boyfriend instead of hating each other.
2007-03-04 13:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by bvtc6677 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey your only in middle school don't worry so much about it. I guarantee that by the time you get to high school you won't even remember him. To me he sounds like a loser and you need to have a serious talk with your friend too. It sounds like you should ditch both of them.
2007-03-04 14:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ay shawty u gotta put hm in chek if u kno anybody like anotha friend dat got a class wit him ask dat person 2 keep tabs on both of em and c if dey act lyk dey lyk each otha den confront em and if dey lyk each otha break up wit em and find a new bestfriend cuz she aint posed 2 b messin wit yo ***** i mean man
2007-03-04 14:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by spongebobslady2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you feel uncomfortable when she is with him. Let her know about your insecurities. If she were really your friend she would understand and back off.
2007-03-04 13:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by figglepie123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
middle schoolers dont know anything about love.
you should talk to him & your bestfriend about this situation
before you lose your bestfriend or the boyfriend.
2007-03-04 13:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by irreplaceable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say be worried. i had a friend that happened to and it didn't turn out to well,
2007-03-04 13:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by softballgirl240 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
high school drama.
*gag*
2007-03-04 13:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by hung like chuck norris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋