Friends pressure me to say and do things to girl's that are kind of hard to keep away from my imagination and wondering what if I did. I am a christian and I am trying my best to live right and sex seems like the toughest temptation for me. Sometimes I wonder what freedom I could have if I ever got past it. Help.
2007-03-04 13:41:43 · 9 answers · asked by norman d 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It is tough. Here are some good tips. When you feel tempted have a few verses memorized that talk about not giving into the tempation. Stay away from people, situations and places that tempt you. Remember that when Joseph was tempted he fled, that means he just ran. Ask God for help in the name of Jesus and pray about it, it really works. Here are some verses to look up: 1 Cor 10:13, James 4:7, Phil 4:8, Eph 2:3-6, Gal 5:24, 1 Thess 4:3-8 ...........God bless
2007-03-04 13:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ms DeeAnn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay away from Song of Solomon.
Guys seem to struggle with this temptation a great deal. The best advice I could give is to not feed the problem with pornography or other things that seem to make the temptation worse. Also, while you probably won't be able to get rid of temptation altogether, avoid situations where you could act on that temptation.
Hope this helps
2007-03-04 13:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by LX V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Matthew 5:28 "But I say unto you,That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart ". Ephesians 5:11 " And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.Remember Proverbs 15:3 " The eyes of the Lord are in every place beholding the evil and the good.There is another verse I can't remember but it says stay away from people like that OR you will become as they are .Try to witness to them ,don't be ashamed of the gospel.Try finding new friends or answer for it later in front of God
2007-03-04 14:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the truth of your nature! It is mighty powerful... the sex drive. It can make you do the craziest things.
The best advise is to tell yourself how "special" you are! That sharing yourself with someone you find equally special is the most important thing to keep in mind..
It will help you to "chose" it will help you learn that you do actually have a "choice" it will give you choice! and that is what we are seeking "choice", give it to yourself by knowing how special you are and how precious it is. When you hold this in your mind you can explore your sexuality with people without needing to "commit" by having sex with them.
Then when you are ready the union creates what is was meant to create but if you do not give yourself choice then heaven help you because your life is in the hands of lady luck!
Do you know what it creates? the desire only for your partner and you can never again be tempted!
2007-03-04 13:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by James 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No normal person ever gets past sex. God made women appealing to men for a reason. Trying to deny that part of you will only lead you to problems. Sexual desire is natural. Maybe you should look for a serious partner, someone to spend your life with. God commanded man to be fruitful and multiply, He is obviously in favor of it.
2007-03-04 13:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Raul D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, so the wacked-out experiences of one bi-polar person you know should be generalized to all people everywhere? That's a rather silly idea. Making stupid decisions makes life more difficult. Stupid decisions include going to tarot readers, believing in magical gods, and believing other superstitious nonsense. Using a bit of rational thought and common sense, and actually thinking about decisions and actions, makes life much simpler to navigate. You should try it. Peace.
2016-03-28 23:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best for you would be to find a partner and to have sex. Lot's of it. (always using condoms of course).
Masturbation is also a nice way to relieve sexual tensions. Just go ahead, it's natural , healthy and enjoyable.
Sexual urges are part of life and it's unhealthy to repress them too much.
2007-03-04 23:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a nice christian girl and have sex with her.
2007-03-04 13:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like a fire, do not feed it. try not to think about it. stay away from things connected with it. if you did not stop thinking about it, it'll lead to sin. and sin when finnished leads to death. but do not say, i am tested of God. for he will not give you tests you can not bear.
2007-03-04 15:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by alexis a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋