So there is this girl. I've liked her for about a year now. Whenever I hang out with her, I'm happy. Whenever, I think bout her I'm happy and I think bout her all the time. I think she knows how i feel even though I havn't came out and told her. She's been into and out of this other guy who is in the millitary and he is never around. Before he went off they dated a couple of times and he screwed her over big time, but she keeps going back for more and she is all thinkin bout him again. I care about her and I don't want to see her get screwed over again, and I just no she would if she went back to him. He's more experienced and smoother talkin than me, which makes it even harder. If we didn't work out I would hope that she doesn't go back to this kid to get hurt again and if she does i hope he don't screw her over. I just don't no wat to do. I like her and I GUARANTEE we would work out if i got a chance. Wat do yall do?
2007-03-04 13:40:05 · 11 answers · asked by cub_fan07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont let go of her! if she feels the same way....u got it made! tell her how u feel. the biggest mistake people make is not expressing how they feel. the worst that would happen is you'd be heartbroken....like i am right now. so u cry for a few weeks, and before u know it....someone else will come along.
u sound sweet, if the other guy is a jerk.... step in! women deserve a good guy who truly loves her. most women would cherish a love like that. cuz trust me.... once they get screwed over enough times, and by several exes..... they turn into bitter bitchez and start playin every mutha fukca in sight! its actually quite amusing to watch men hurt ;)
2007-03-04 13:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kimber Gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a girl, if you insure her safety and a happy relationship theres a better chance of something happening.
If your quiet like you have been for a WHOLE YEAR, then nothings gonna happen and shes gonna get hurt over and over again. Truth is girls that run back to someone who hurts them are the ones who are determined, she might think she loves him but she doesnt, shes just comfortable. Dont get sucked into trying to save her. Just love her. Shes got alot on her plate right now emotionally, just set it in front of her and no matter what happends, dont leave her side. Keep on keeping on.
It'll allllllllll matter in the end.
Good luck!!
2007-03-04 13:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by Omission is betrayel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what that happened to me. Im in middle school there is this girl i have liked since 7th grade then this guy came to our school from another school that exact day everything changed. We are still fighting over her but i dont think she likes him anymore. We are good friends. Well i would say just tell her how you feel and if she doesnt feel the same way then say that you just want to be friends
2007-03-04 14:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Panda Dai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you haven't told her how you feel, but you think she knows. Well lose the guess work and tell her how you feel ! Let her also know about your concern for her being hurt by this other guy, and express to her the same confidence that you expressed in your question( as far as believing that you and her would work out ). This may just change her thinking and if it doesn't, then you gave it your best shot, and she may just have to learn from her mistakes.
2007-03-04 13:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Stevie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's two sides to each story. Maybe, the other man in question that claims she wants him back is talking out the side of his neck. When in fact, he could be the one that's stalking her trying to make her take him back while she's rejecting him.
I suggest that you talk to the women whose won your affections and she'll give you the real deal about whats really going on. You can't always trust hearsay.
2007-03-04 13:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Legsology07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know in the same situation... don't know why girls want the guy where there's a chance to get screwed over
2007-03-04 13:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ya Boy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to my sis, just keep being you maybe some day she'll fall for you
2007-03-04 13:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to tell her how u feel and tell her that he is not the one for you good luck
2007-03-04 13:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by babyash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out
you start dating her
2007-03-04 13:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by mardus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋