I currently like this guy.. He has a gf, however he is not faithful to her.. Not with me or anything like that...He always flirts with me, tells me that he thinks that i am beautful.. I am not sure he means it.We are great friends.now, my question is... Will this behavior continue? If we ever wound up together..... IS he a player? What are your advices? I would appreciate it very much! thanks.. ciao
2007-03-04 13:32:01 · 16 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this is his behavior toward his girlfriend now, it is highly unlikely to change if he were to become your boyfriend.
You're best off staying friends at this point. If he presses the issue about being your man, be honest with him about your concerns. If he is not willing to prove to you he can be faithful, don't waist your time.
Good luck.
2007-03-04 13:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I Tell You This, He's Most Likely In It For A quick Relationship, Or Sex, & Believe I'm Seeing This Happen Right Now To Someone I Care For, But I Bet He LFirts ith Plenty Other Girls, Since He Flirt's With You while He's In A Relationship, But If Your Emotion's Run Too High I Wouldn't Get Into That Relationship.
2007-03-04 21:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Moonslap 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am much older than you. I think I can give you the advice you need but may not really want to hear. If he has a gf and flirting w/ others then he will never be faithful to you should he start going out w/ you. You need to find someone who is unattatched and wanting to be w/ ONLY you. That special someone will come. I promise you that. You may not know it right away, but you will know w/ time. I know this because when I met my husband, I didnt even really like him that much. Now, I cant imagine my life w/out him.
2007-03-04 21:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell to the No! First of all I would have great reservations about even befriending a guy who cheats...thats just not a good person. He's not your friend if he flirst with you while he is seeing someone, he wants to hook up. I mean he might actually "like" you but once a cheater, always a cheater. Whats to say he wouldnt end up doing the same to you? Why be with someone exclusively if your gonna be unfaithful right?
2007-03-04 21:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't be faithful to her, he can't be faithful to you.I know everyone's saying he's a player, but I'm going to say it too. He's a player. What would happen if you two did go out? Would he flirt with other girls behind your back?You need a guy who likes you, not you and every other girl he sees. I understand you like him, but he's not worth it. You're too good for him. Oh, and you may want to consider telling his gf about this. You two aren't close, but it'd be the right thing to do. Good luck.
2007-03-04 21:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by King John dragon-slayer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has a girlfriend and is not faithful to her......and you expect a peaches and cream future with someone like that? After he gets in your pants guess what?.......he will find some girl who is more beautful than you are and feed her the same line he fed you
2007-03-04 21:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he asks you out, don't say yes. chances are, he will prob do the same to you as the other girl. my advice is to stay friends and don't let it get out of control lol. HAVE FUN. HE IS A PLAYER ALL THE WAY
2007-03-04 21:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by fmsgate8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you do get together with him don't take the relationship to seriously, You know he is a player, Why would he change?
You know all he wants is sex, so you know who to call when your in the mood.
2007-03-04 21:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by mburleigh8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey he may be a player and he might be for real. i had a girl freind and a good close freind. and i feel in love with my close freind just because we had nothing to hid. i love her more then any gf i ever had.
2007-03-04 21:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by jimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably a player. guys like that are everywhere, you gotta take some time and find a good one
2007-03-04 21:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Raw Rock Kills 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋