i tell you. you men are so confusing, lol. men in your 20's/30's do you want a woman like your mom or not? and what do you mean by this if so? someone that bosses you around?? do you mean bossy in bed or something? why do some guys say this -- then they go and get a gf who dresses a like a corner trick! i assume this isn't a bit like your mother (hopefully!). I'm a fun laid back girl whose a homebody but likes to get FREAKY not a ho though, and i'm not going to be like his MOTHER. so why say this guys? please explain?
2007-03-04 13:09:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I am looking for a woman who is like my mom, I just want somebody who can keep me in check. She doesn't have to clean up after me or take care of me, but just remind me every once in a while to do things. For example around the house, I don't mind doing dishes, cleaning, laundry, but I don't get up and do it on my own without being asked. Its not that I'm lazy but just not motivated. But if a woman asks me to do any of those things I will do them. She doesn't have to be bossy about it, and I would expect her to help out with those things.
Dating and sex-wise though, I do not want a girl who is like my mom. I want a girl who is going to compliment my personality.
2007-03-04 16:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can say I don't want a woman who is like my mom at all,but if she had some of the same qualities it would be ok like sweet,caring,loving,a cooked meal every now and then not all the time cause I can take care of myself,reminds me when I forget things like guys do not be all where were you what were you doing cause she needs to trust me like I would her.As for bossy in bed it can be very arousing..atleast in my case cause I like knowing what she likes and doesn't plus sometimes it nice to be told I want you now !
As for the rest of the guys I guess some of them just want a woman like mom who will take care of their every need cook,clean,laundry,all the things we didn't have to do as little boys but thats not for me I like a woman who is independent and selfwilled yet likes to do nice things now and then for me as I would like to do for her.Or some guys are just freaks and I mean in a weird way.Well I hope this help in some way and sorry its so long.
2007-03-04 13:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by the Juggernaut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Dr Freud, LOL all men want to kill thier fathers and screw thier mothers ( the edipus complex) so if hes right i bet they do look for someone like thier mothers! what a funny questoin. mabye thats y they liekd to be spanked too
2007-03-04 13:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. And it is rare that a man wants a bossy gf/wife, especially in bed.
2007-03-04 13:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by truli u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men aren't really confusing
we are people to and like women we have preferences too. Personal preference is what its all about. The person that chooses you prefers you and instead of trying to find fault with it. Live and be happy.
2007-03-04 14:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by payne116 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to buy a clue. How old are you? Most men look for women that remind them of their mothers. That doesn't mean they want you to act like them.
2007-03-04 13:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My Mom is cool about everything. I could have burned the house down when I was a kid and she wouldn't have even so much as slapped me. LOL! Can I burn your house down and get away with it? If so, let's get together...
2007-03-04 13:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys go for girls that physically look like their mother. Girls go for guys that are emotionally like their fathers.
2007-03-04 13:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by Moral Orel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will always be guys.Confusing as ever....
2007-03-04 13:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by Annabella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋