I'm a guy who likes to spoil his girlfriend... I buy her lots of stuff like clothes, shoes, ipod, give her cash.....
She was good with it at the begining, but then after a few months got uncomfortable with all the gifts... when is enough, enough?
2007-03-04 13:07:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is starting to think that you're trying to buy her heart. so she's probably begginning to feel insecure on whether the relationship is based on love or material things. do u even take her out more than buying her things? she can start to get tired of materials things and that can overturn the love she has for you if ur not careful.
2007-03-04 13:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by evanescent_eclipse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, the first thing of all is GIRLS LOVE GIFTS. But there is a definate limit dude. It seems like your nice with all the cash and gifts and that impresses the ladies. But if you give alot and big things over and over in a short time than you are in some kind of trouble. If the guy gives gifts and doesnt stop, some girls get the feeling that you are having to buy gifts to keep her. They think that you think your not good enough and you have to show you can be by buying things. This is not true but it's the way they think. I've done this before. Just not giving cash and ipods, your pretty good. But add bgardner123@hotmail.com if u need help
2007-03-04 21:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by bgardner1234 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a girl married to a guy who likes to buy gifts for me, I can see where your girlfriend is coming from. I'd rather him help me with the dishes, but...
Gifts are nice, but sometimes there's other things a girl wants- time, affection, to hear your thoughts, etc.
I'd suggest reading the book, "The Five Love Languages," by Gary Chapman. It explains that there's five basic ways to communicate love. You may be simply "speaking" the wrong language. You might want to have her read it as well, so the two of you can understand each other better.
Best of luck!
2007-03-04 21:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get her every single thing in the world because then she will think you are trying to buy her! Start telling her jokes, hug her, say she's pretty, and things like that but don't over do it with the gifts. I hope you like my advice! I believe in you!!!!!
2007-03-04 21:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you really shouldnt because we all take things for granted
your girls really should know the value of everything and by doing all this your letting them know that life is easy going and also that its ok to not work for anything. Nothing wrong with them not excepting it maybe they know the true values of life
2007-03-04 21:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by alwayzsmilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her tell her whats up maybe she will understand
2007-03-04 21:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like she's not for sale....you know try to be a loving partner....not a sugar daddy
2007-03-04 21:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋