is being spoiled bad?

Answer 1

Nope, if youre spoiled you get all kinds of stuff
get your way, and have alot of fun

Answer 2

It seems that some young people equate being spoiled as being synonymous with being loved.Nothing could be farther from the truth.I think it is more important to be loved and feel loved than to be ignored .It seems a lot of young girls on this site boast of being spoiled and yet I never hear them say that their parents love them.They never boast that their parents are involved in their life.They never say they are happy but boast how they try to make other people unhappy. So based on my observations I would say being spoiled is nothing to boast about. These spoiled young girls sound like very insecure, unhappy people who are starved for attention. Just my opinion.

Answer 3

spoiled is definite no-no. from experience, i had a friend who was spoiled. She always knew she would get her away. She didnt know the meaning of life, and she didn't have to work for nethng. She turned out to be a selfish brat. A lot of ppl in skool didnt lik her bcuz of this. It is an extremely bad way to raise a child. But, i suggest not being strict either. Youll find your kids complaining and wishing they had their friend's parents.

Answer 4

Yes being a spoiled child makes one grow up with a sense of entitlement. It also shows them that they don't have to work for what they want and they expect the whole world to be a giant "gimme". This is one of the cruelest things that a parent can legally do to their children (in my opinion). They have not been taught to stand on their own two feet and have learned nothing about the realities of life then are thrown in a world that is not going to cater to their whims...

Answer 5

What do you mean by spoiled?

Some people call holding infants when they cry spoiling. This is absurd. Holding crying infants merely meets their biological and emotional needs.

Some people call letting your children explain their feelings and viewpoints spoiling. Again, absurd. Letting your children explain their feelings and viewpoints helps develop their ability to think, discuss, work as a team, develop meaningful self-esteem.

If by spoiling you mean giving a child everything she asks for, not requiring her to treat things with care and do meaningful things for the family, not giving her consequences for not following rules, then you and I mean the same thing by spoiling and of course spoiling is very bad.

Such children will grow up unable to help themselves function, cope with life's challenges, and unable to appreciate what they have. They likely won't respect others, either.

Answer 6

I think that the term "spoiled" is relative. Giving in to every whim and catering to a child is only going to hurt the child in the long run. Allowing a child to have treats/rewards within reason can serve as a way to reinforce desirable behavior.

Answer 7

It depends on how far you take it. I don't think you should let them get to the point where they automatically think that they can have whatever they want. You should still spoil them with little things and make them work a little for the big things.

Answer 8

It is really bad. but depends on u. U may get learned from what u have done. may be u ve performed the jobs no body wants. and now u r experienced. now u have decision power. u can decide whats right n whats wrong. u can help others out from keeping them from spoiling. remember my one suggestion, do things and keep check and balance in what u ve done. u ll be a great person 1 day. bring changes in urself.

Answer 9

Yes because when your 25 you'll expect everybody else to do your crap. Nobody likes spoiled people anyways.

Answer 10

spoiled to the point where your child is selfish brat, then yes...but if you have the means to give them pretty much anything they want and they truly appreciate it, then no.