My ex boyfriend wants to get back together with me... I dont have any feelings for him.. I told him that i wanted to be friends..We are friends now.. I am happy that we are friends.. but i get the feeling that he is not giving up....a week ago, he confessed his love for me. I dont know what to do?... He is the sensitive type.... HELP! would be the term here lol.... any advice or any experiences? thank you.. ciao
2007-03-04 13:02:01 · 10 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep your distance for awhile I felt the same about my ex even though i knew it would never work again still doesn't change how people feel though so just keep your distance until he realises it is totally over and hopefully you can maintain a friendship I have managed to with my ex so it can work and I hope it settles down from you
2007-03-04 13:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worse thing you could have done.
He's now thinking since you two are friends there is a chance you two will get back together.
If you don't want a relationship with him break off the friendship and move on.
Although, some guys do like to remain friends with ex's. Just because. Friendly is okay, but the guy confessed his love. Its time to kick him to the curb all together and move on.
Its the best thing for the both of you.
Best of luck
2007-03-04 21:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by bwiz2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing here. I know exactly how you feel, and it sucks. I would suggest not talking for awhile, sometimes becoming friends immediatly after the relationship makes him think you still love him. I think you should tell him to just leave you alone for awhile, that you need to breathe. Then, eventually ya'll can be friends again. Things take time!
God Bless
2007-03-04 21:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by YoungLove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, dear. This sounds like a not-so-good situatuion. Tell him plain and simple that you want to be friends and nothing more with him. Even though it may hurt him at first, would you rather be nice and have him tagging along like a lost little puppy after you all the time?
Best wishes,
LB
2007-03-04 21:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Love Bites 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth. It might hurt him, but try not to comfort him too much. He'll probably just want the attention. Try to get a friend to hang out with him if you're worried he's hurt. I hope this helps. Good luck!
nicole
2007-03-04 21:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should reiterate the fact that your not interested in him that way and stay away from him. If need be, get an order of protection from him from the local police department.
2007-03-04 21:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by di12381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt even bother reading past the first 2 sentences. if you have no feelings for him, then its not gonna work and there is nothing you can do about it. juat explain that to him. tell him you guys will be fine as friends
2007-03-04 21:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by gwmice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I bet your feeling weird right now but uhhh your soo lucky i have never had a boyfriend :-(
2007-03-04 21:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by prolife101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you guys had your specail time and that its over and you just want him in your life as a friend
2007-03-04 21:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound like you two can be freinds yet, maybe time apart will help
2007-03-04 21:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by alongfortheride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋