we were goin on out for 3 weeks already, after one week he tells me he wants to keep the reationship on the low then i ask him if hes embarresed and he told me that if he was he would brake up a long time ago, so then i tell him hes not making any sense now he wont even call me for 2 days. whats goin on?
2007-03-04 13:01:01 · 17 answers · asked by Velina 980 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not think he is really into the relationship. He might have someone else, or just not have enough interest. In any case, this is not good - I would end the relationship now, if I were you.
2007-03-04 13:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but your boyfriend is still playing the field. He want to make sure he is keeping his options open for others out there. That is the one of the reasons guys say to keep the relationship on the low low.
Another one is.... well, maybe you are not up to par in the looks dept. He may not want his friends to know that he is with you. he will never admit to any of the above. He is not worth dating if he has to keep it on the low low.. a true friend or lover should be proud to walk around and do everything that is enjoyable with you.
2007-03-04 13:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hiro M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was busy, but i doubt it....thing is, if he said the thing with on the low, he was uncertain of his choice to be with you, or uncertain of wether he liked you or not, or maybe he had other open options. if you really really like him and don't wanna lose him, be proud and smart, don't call him, make him look for you by not giving him any attention,men will always want what they cannot have. if you're simply curious, give him a call, check out what's going on, and then, after he has told you what you need to know, thank him politely, say buh-bye, and hang up :P and if you do talk to him, be very open and starightforward with a mature serious and uninterested tone. do NOT cry or anything. do not panic. do not be soft and mushy on him, it'll disgust him. just be yourself, strong, self-confident, if he doesn't want you, it's his loss, and you walk away gracefully.good luck :) *hug*
2007-03-04 13:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by vehrim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being sort of a jerk, he might have something else going on on the side, but any man you're with should be proud of you, dont waste your time or precious emotions on him. Ask him whats going on and ket himm know that its unacceptable and yoou wont have it. If he refuses to change, take your own road and move on..
2007-03-04 13:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is a bit confusing.
I don't know why you're confused, his intentions are pretty clear, sorry. He's obviously not interested in a serious relationship.
Time to move on, good luck.
2007-03-04 13:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not prepared this tym to have a serious relationship with you because of what happened to him last time..just give him a time to think for his self...maybe he has no load...heheheheheh
2007-03-04 13:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by gimerel_talde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S TELLING YOU HE WANTS TO TAKE IT SLOW HE DOESN'T WANT TO GET SERIOUS RIGHT AWAY HE WANTS TO GO OUT AND HAVE FUN AND GET TO KNOW YOU BETTER THAT'S OK YOUR LUCKY TO HAVE A GUY WITH SLOW HAND HE'S NOT A FAST MOVER IT'S CALLED RESPECT FOR YOU HE PROBABLY WANTS TO FALL IN LOVE FIRST AND NOT MIX UP SEX AND MISTAKE IT FOR LOVE THAT CAN HAPPEN HE'S A KEEPER YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO READ BETWEEN THE LINES
2007-03-04 13:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably cheating on you. While we're at it, you need to take a remedial English class so that people can understand your sentences.
2007-03-04 13:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that hes not really into you. if he wants to keep it on the low then thats not the relationship you should be in.
2007-03-04 13:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by hawaiian_lover1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should give him time to think over n wait patiently 4 his response.i think he w'd give u the answer very soon.good luck.
2007-03-04 13:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋