im trying to help him get thru this but when i tell him something or suggest it he just says ok. and i am getting very frustrated and mad at him cause he isnt getting it. im trying to hold my temper and i am but its getting hard. i dont know what else and how to be there for him without getting angry
2007-03-04 12:58:36 · 4 answers · asked by LuvaBaby08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he doesn't need advice, maybe he just needs someone to be there for him and to listen to him (just listen) when he needs to talk...
2007-03-04 13:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by somedaywillcome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to just back off a bit. He's having a hard time, and you know that, and it's very admirable that you want to help him. But maybe all he needs from you is to just know that you're there and you support him. Sometimes, just having a shoulder to cry on when things get really hard can make all the difference. Don't worry about having all the answers! Just be supportive and let him know that you're there if he needs you. :)
2007-03-04 13:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop carrying this man. He needs a slap in the face. I know you really care for him, but sometimes you just have to be cruel to be kind.
2007-03-04 13:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get angry just understand that he is going through things and you have to be patient...i say dont try to tell him anything just offer your help whenever...just keep letting him know that you are there for him and (if) youll do anything to help..just be his loving girl...
2007-03-04 13:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Im.An.Allstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋