I like this girl that i c after school everyday. How do i go up to her without making a mistake and not make her think im a loser?
2007-03-04 12:57:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself, even though that can be the hardest thing to do. Be nice, be friendly, and just be YOU. Don't worry about making a mistake! She's probably flattered that you even bothered to talk to her. Good luck!!!
2007-03-04 13:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to know that you are not a loser. If in any way you go to her thinking that you are a loser then you might just end up doing something that you did not want to do in the first place.
Secondly, if you go to this girl and you are really genuine in what you say to her and she thinks you are a loser, you have no business wanting to talk to her, you have to think about who you want in your life,but don't take it too seriously though remember you are young,you have plenty of experiences to gain.
2007-03-04 21:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by BOBINE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce yourself, and start a conversation with her. Complimenting something she's wearing, or her hair, or her jewelry is always a good way to start. Find out a little about her, but not in a nosy kind of way. Tell her she's cute, and you like her, later in the conversation. Don't come on too strong though, do it in a flirty kind of way.
Best wishes,
LB
2007-03-04 21:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Love Bites 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to be yourself. tell her that she looks like a nice person and you want to get to know her more. if she really is a nice girl she won't think you're a loser.
2007-03-04 21:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by ärî$hå¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, don't do anything outside of your own character because that would make loser material. Its easy, just introduce yourself! Don't be shy, just do it. Not many ppl are gonna be rude and not answer back. =P
2007-03-04 21:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I am shy, but what's the risk? Ask her out. If she says yes, great! If not, do you really want to go out with the snob?
I would write down what you want to say first. It just gives you an idea so you don't go up to her and stammer. I hope this helps. Good luck!
nicole
2007-03-04 21:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, think of really funny things to say. Women love funny guys. Keep it light, and continue being your wonderful charming self. Soon enough she will be the one asking YOU out!
2007-03-04 21:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is treat her like a friend. If you're nervous, bring her a gift and let her know that you like her. Then, it should go smoothly if you just act like yourself.
2007-03-04 21:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by mirimookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to h3r and
start flirting and
t3ll h3r how pr3tty
sh3 is and kind and 3cts.
th3n w3ll ask her out
and tak3 h3r to a r3strant or the movi3s.
and wh3n your in the middl3 of your dat3
look @t h3r 3y3s and h3r lips back and forth till sh3 notic3s.
+ b ur s3lf
2007-03-04 21:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My best advice for you would be to act natural and let it flow, girls always like it if you have a sence of humor!
2007-03-04 21:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋