I proposed to her and she rejected me, saying she doesn't want marriage... Yet she wants to be with me? What's all this about?
2007-03-04 12:50:34 · 11 answers · asked by JeK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
maybe she isnt ready to get married, but she still wants to be with you until she is ready to move on to the next step.
2007-03-04 12:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she disagrees with the concept of marriage. Some people feel there's more meaning in staying together without being married. The logic being that people are "stuck" once they're married, so if you're together outside of marriage, it means you are together simply because you want to be together. The only way to really know what she's thinking is to ask her to further explain her thoughts and feelings.
2007-03-04 20:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by M L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes not ready 4 marriage
2007-03-04 20:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she don't want to married you don't mean she don't love you! Maybe not getting married is better than getting married!
2007-03-04 21:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by New York 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has seen too many people get divorced. Maybe she is scared of eternal commitment. Sometimes when people feel really comfortable, they dont want to make any changes what so ever.
2007-03-04 21:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves you, she's just not ready for marriage.
Where you seem to be ready for marriage and she's clearly not, it may be a little difficult for you two to see eye-to-eye.
Good luck... You'll need it.
2007-03-04 20:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you do have to talk to her but it could be a number of reasons:
-Instability in her career/dreams
-Income/money problems
-Fear of settling down because she wants to be sure of her decision
-Someone who doesn't believe in marriage
-Fear of commitment
-Self-esteem problems.
2007-03-04 21:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by ccas2200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT DOESN'T MEAN SHE DOESN'T WANT MARRIAGE AT ALL. MAYBE AT THIS MOMENT SHE DOESN'T WANT IT. TALK IT OUT
2007-03-04 22:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by VICKY A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself is she worth waiting for.
2007-03-04 21:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Dubb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO THAT'S OK ALOT 0F PEOPLE DO THAT
SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GET MARRIED
2007-03-04 20:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋