how do i ask out this guy ive been crushing on for months now?

Question

..i think he likes me because we dont see eachother often but when we do he always smiles and says hi and tries to start conversation with me and tries to be funny. he also stares at me a lot. is he hinting that he may be interested in me? and how should i ask him out casually or should i wait for him to ask me out. i am shy so this is not easy for me

Answer 1

Hmm, it seems that he does like you. Or at least in my experience that what i do when I like a girl. He might be nervous to ask you out to do something because that's just how guys are. You should ask him out to somewhere public first like with alot of friends so its not just you two. Just to hang out and see where it goes from there and if u guys are practically glued to each other the whole time start flirting with him... and maybe if it goes really good just sorta slide ur hand into his lol trust me that would make both your nights great!!!

Answer 2

You could ask him if he's seen the new movie yet. If he says "yes" say that you haven't but really want to. (hint, hint).
If he says that he hasn't seen it, and you say that you haven't either, maybe he'll take the hint and the opportunity to ask you to go. If he doesn't now would be an easy time for you to ask him if he'd like to see it sometime. since you both are shy this "technique" removes a lot of the pressure. After all, the reason you are "shy" is because you're afraid that he'll say "no". He feels the same way. Good luck!

Answer 3

Personally, I am really shy also, but what's the risk? If he says yes, great! If not, then do you really want to be with that jerk? You'll get over him. Trust me, even if you feel embarrassed of the situation, people forget.

I would have a good friend of yours ask for you. Then the rejection isn't as hard and the acceptance is more thrilling. I hope this helps.

nicole

Answer 4

Well to make sure hes interested have one of your friends ask him if he likes you, if he doesnt answer or you still just want to ask him out you should write him a note beacuse your shy and tell him how you feel, although notes sometimes get lost or unread. So calling him is always safe too make sure you have a friend with you.

Answer 5

Don't just bluntly ask him out, it could send him the wrong sign about you, possibly. Next time you talk to him be like, "Have you seen that movie "pick out a movie" yet, I want to see it so bad." If he likes you he'll probably ask you if you want to go see it that night, if he doesn't say anything try again in a week or so.

Answer 6

I know how you feel, I'm really shy too, but i think you should ask him out. Like they say you only live once, and you don't want to look back on this in ten years and say what if, or i should have. But it's ultimately your decision. Good luck.

Answer 7

he may be interested in you. Just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. You shouldn't wait because before you know it he will already have a girlfriend.

Answer 8

Personally... i think guys should ask girls out... its just the way its always been... but its still kool... he totally likes girl.. i can make an acception... ASK HIM OUT... tell him when HE brings up a conversation that you got a crush on him...

GOOD LUQ ;-)

Answer 9

work into a conversation with him that you're going to the movies and ask him if he would like to go...maybe something will happen from there.he may like you but just not know how you feel.Maybe he's shy as well.
-goodluck

Answer 10

take a deep breath,and go ahead and ask him out. If he makes you laugh and stares there is a good chance he will not turn you down so go ahead and break the ice.