I am starting to fall for this one guy that i know... BUT... he has a girlfriend and he is not faithful to her... Not with me or anything like that....But why do people fall in love with those that they shouldnt?..... Is it because it is something that we cant have?.......Why do we have that desire to obtain that person.. is it because we want to fix them? to make them not cheat? I was just wondering this.. Does anyone have any thoughts, or experiences?
thanks, ciao....
2007-03-04 12:48:34 · 9 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that people cant help who they fall in love with. If someone has the qualities that you look for in a guy/girl, they, nor you can help that. its just the situation that is messed up. wait, another person will come along. good luck.
2007-03-04 12:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by JussMe...YaKnow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do know that it usually never works out in these cases, but it just seems the guy knows just what to say to you and you are thinking to yourself why can't I find a single guy like this. He is a player and they have all the right moves to get girls falling for them. It is usually the girls that don't fall for their lines that they attempt to settle down with. If you were to decide to go for him as soon as you catch feelings he will move on. The chase is over then. I know this from experience. Hope this helps
2007-03-04 13:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dear, but you hit close to home with
the thing about not being able to have something.
we see it as a challenge and wonder
if we are.. i guess "worthy" enough to
steal away his attention. so we are tempted
to try. and to win.
to be THE girl for him.
trust me, ive tried and had to break that habit.
it was tough.
but as for forgetting this guy..
i wouldnt even look in his direction.
if he cheats, he is able to do it again, on you
or whoever his next girlfreind is..
2007-03-04 12:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by ninjah_jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help who you fall in love with, but if you KNOW the relationship would be bad for you and won't last then you need to be smart enough not to pursue it.
2007-03-04 12:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, is uncontrollable, you have absoulutly no say in it. It just finds two people who are perfect for eachother, and it makes them crazy! Its blind, and thats why sometimes you fall for the person who seems perfect, but really isnt!
2007-03-04 12:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract!
2007-03-04 12:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must be some reason your falling for him.... and yeah theres always a part of us girls that wants to "reform the bad boy"
2007-03-04 12:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's our natural desire to want what we know we can't have!
2007-03-04 12:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you got it... go figure....
2007-03-04 12:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋